I'm 6 months pregnant, me n my ex broke up before i found out i was pregnant we do have a daughter n this is our second child together.he blames me for us breaking up in the first place says im never going to change n our relationship will never work. but apart of me thinks he acting like that with me right now cause i am pregnant n he wants to be out whoring aroung. i tried to work things out with him but he always has an excuse so he wont have to work things out. i was always dropping everything to spend time with him until 2 1/2 weeks ago i stop cuz i knew he was hooking up with other grls.n now hes mad at me treats me like dirt cuz i did that should i feel bad or should i keep doing what im doing someone please let me know
2007-03-03 21:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by elainzcutegrls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry about him worry about yourself and your children
2007-03-03 21:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you can do better than him. If he doesnt want to be commited then, even though its hard considering the circumstances, try your hardest not to stress over this and consintrate on your health your daughters health and your new addition.
Dont chase after him because he isnt going to change he obviously isnt ready for full commitment and i dont see how your childeren need to go through that growing up.
You are a strong person i can see that already i know you will make the right decision but in my opinion dont waste your time on a prick like that.
Goodluck sweetie follow your head not your heart xoxoxoxoxo
2007-03-04 05:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by fi_beans90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is a jerk.
Don't feel bad about no wanting to be treated like a second class person. He's using your relationship issues to avoid working anything out that might make him responsible for you and his kids, bottom line, he doesn't want to have to take responsibility for his actions. And he wants to be able to play happy families when it suits him and be able to go out and party whenever he wants. It's good that you're not accepting it anymore and ou should stick to your choice.
You don't have to worry about him anymore. You made a decision to wash your hands of him and trust me it was the right one. Ignore this guy and focus on yourself and your kids. How are your kids going to understand when their dad is always coming and going whenever he wants. You said 'now he's mad at me and treats me like dirt'. He's been treating you like dirt for a while and he's mad at you because you aren't playing his game anymore.
Tell him you want nothing to do with him anymore and that he's right, you don't want to work out your relationship issues. There is a better, healthier relationship out there for you and your kids will eventually make up their own minds about their father, you don't need to put up with him for their sake, it's still your life.
Put your foot down and tell him you've had enough of him and of your disfunctional relationship. 1 child already and 6 months pregnant, you don't have to deal with this stuff. Leave him to sort out his own issues.
Good luck.
2007-03-04 05:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your story makes me angry at him. So please take good care of yourself. Anyone who is not prepared to work at a relationship is not worth your love and attention and certainly not your children. You can do better even when you are on your own. You don't need anyone to whore around and then expect you to be waiting right there for them... has he lost his marbles or something? you really are worth more than that! Good luck with yr pregnancy and kid later on. Hope that you will be able to let him go and find happiness for yourself and your children.
2007-03-04 05:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure who you are but you should consider your self and your children above any thing else so stand proud and go forward with a happy life i am sure that if you look into the future you will have a bringt one
regards terry
fellowship1
2007-03-04 05:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by profitnumber1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you- Being pregnant and a single mom is hard enough. I would start collecting child support and move on to someone who will treat you better!!
2007-03-04 05:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you show some maturity and just stay home and look after your daughter and the baby you are carrying!!! Sounds like you both need to grow up. Poor kids!!!
2007-03-04 05:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you want advice before date. this is a lessons for all
2007-03-04 05:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just "break up" like that. there has to be a reason. so you guys gotta work that out.
2007-03-04 05:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋