Will this work out with her? I used to give her so much attention but she used to ignore me.?

Question

Now I started ignoring my best friend. B4 she used to make me wait whole day even for a text and then daily she used to talk to me 4 half an hour and then used to say that she is busy or got some work and bt I was getting irritated with that.. how can a person busy whole day? I started playing her game since 2 days. she made me calls but I didnt receive she texted me but I didnt replt till. I just received her msg saying sorry if she had made a mistake.
I'm not feeling good avoiding her but sometimes its necessary to make a person realise that in their lives we r important.. I'm doing all this to get her attention at me and I'm getting it now.
B4 i used to give her alot of attention bt I have stopped it now. what do u think how she is feeling n what she is thinking abt me? Am I doing wrong? I dont want to lose her. Just place ur self in her position n tell if a person who used to care for u alot who used to give u loads of attention suddely ignores u, how would u feel? plz plz help!!

Answer 1

Sounds like you and your friend may be growing apart, which is natural, especially if you're young.

But here's something to bear in mind: it's not always possible to talk to friends every day, and it's not possible to talk to them for more than 20 minutes at a time. Sometimes I don't speak to my closest friends for weeks at a time, simply because we're all very busy. It certainly doesn't mean that I don't like them anymore, or they don't like me. It does mean that we appreciate the time we have together more and make the most of it.

So when you do speak to your friend again, tell her it's nice to hear from her, how's she doing, etc. Allow for things to happen so that you and she have something to talk about!

Answer 2

Time to move on.