2007-03-03 20:19:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't get married. It's a waste.
2007-03-04 03:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while it is generally the man that does the proposing, if you are already in a relationship with the man I suppose you could propose to him, but you must be prepared for him to say yes or no.
You can propose which is asking him to marry you but you cannot tell him to do it becasue you cannot make him do it. It is not an order it is a request.
Personally I do not think it is a good idea. You should wait for him to ask you. If he is not asking fast enough for you, drop some hints. If he don't pick up the hints, you need to move on if being married is such a priority.
2007-03-04 06:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I just got engaged this Christmas and before that I was wondering and hinting like crazy. We were together for 2 yrs and I moved 1,400 miles to move with him. I did allot to be with him and wondered when is he going to ask the question! First off. Have you talked to him about this? Are you ready and he isn't? Talk to him and tell him how you feel, that you want to take it the the next level. Who knows he might have something up his sleeve! You cant make a man love you neither. If he isn't ready and you are you cant wait for him to make his decision, unless you know he is the one for you. Women are always ready to get married first. Then the men follow. Ask him how is feels about getting married, buy his reaction you will be able to tell.
2007-03-04 05:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by litmohrly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not discuss this with the man you love it doesn't seem like it is going to happen. I think you should be able to get him a ring and ask him to marry you just as you wish he would do it to you. So either way you will find out if he wants to marry you either by discussing it with him or asking him to marry you. Either way...GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-07 14:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by DePressed08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant tell anyone 2 get married with u they have 2 b in luv with u and if he doesnt want 2 marry then may b hes not ready
2007-03-07 16:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him. Ask him if he thinks about marriage and if he does then he will be asking you to marry him. If he says something other than yes then that means no you will not be getting married even if you ask him. The End
2007-03-04 07:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by lovebite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when he does not ask to marry you then he is not into you. I don't think a person should be asked to marry someone. If he wants to he will ask if not he will never ask you.
2007-03-04 04:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him how he would feel about you two getting married. This should get a conversation started, see what he says.
2007-03-04 04:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus bring up the topic and see how he feels about it.. There's nothin wrong wit a women proposing to a man. I got proposed in november last yr and i suggested we should think of marriage and he was happy but said he's sacred to commit but i think it startin workin on his mind and in two weeks..he proposed.. So good luck!
2007-03-04 06:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you want to marry?its just a peice of paper it does not change the way you feel for someone if you truely love eachother NOTHING can brake that hold, so marrage is nothing but a peice of paper! plus you can not make anyone do anything!!
2007-03-04 04:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋