O.K...my girlfriend finished with me on Sunday by text. I had been having unrelated problems with stress (exams etc) & she said that all i ever seemed to want was intimacy (not talking2her!) (she hadnt touched me in 1 month) (Really hurt by that!). Anyway,on Mon,she told me she felt it best if we didnt talk4a while,give it 2weeks to get over me,she said!I said 'would u want2go 4a drink aftr then, perhaps as friends (been c in her 4 year-gud frnds b4)?She said 'u may not want2,itl b hard! I was devastated & went home...the next day late at nite got text saying how she nvr wantd2hurt any1 or me,& felt 'really guilty',but 'deserved to'...then left it at that....WHAT DO I DO? If I still like her,do i nvr speak2her again? What's best in this situation? I really value her friendship,but if stil lyk that'd be hard? Do i leave it & see if she texts me eva? Could she? Would she just forget about me, i hav urge 2text her,but know shudnt!
2007-03-03 20:04:03 · 1 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy its hard to understand your question, but here goes.
I think you are in a place where you are caught up in your own world and your girl now feels totally outside and excluded.
I'm sure she has tried to meet you half way, but has not succeeded in making you see her frustration.
She has now decided that a period of separation is necessary for you both, which is a good idea.
Look...you don't know what you have till its no longer there...
Let her enjoy this time apart, and in the mean time give her the courtesy of letting her get her thoughts together and deciding if you are the right one for her.
I you are not, you must build a bridge and get over it!
Good luck friend.B
2007-03-04 00:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by dtedad-50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋