I think my ex still loves me but she doesn't want to be with me again. I know that there's not another guy in her life that she's serious about. What I don't understand is if I'm reading her emotions right about her still loving me why wouldn't she be willing to give this a second chance? Especially after she broke up with me and told me that I did nothing wrong?
2007-03-03 19:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she still likes you but she thinks you are not right for her. she is one side of this relationship and because of any reason she decieds not to continue,as if you didnt want her, she must accept your decision too. set her free and go to find the right one for yourself.
good luck
2007-03-03 20:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she tell you why she wanted to break up with you? I know when people break up, they still love each other. Some people just aren't willing to give a second chance. Maybe you will get a second chance in the future. I know it's tough when your girl breaks up with you and I feel your pain because I wanted a second chance too, but my ex wasn't willing either. If your hurting a lot, you can join a break up group on MSN. The people there will help you out a lot.
http://groups.msn.com/BreakUpSurvival/links.msnw
2007-03-04 04:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a million reasons why someone wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone else. She may feel that you two are not compatible in the long term; doesn't mean that you're doing something "wrong" - but sometimes two people are simply not compatible in their views, lifstyles, values, goals, personalities, you name it. She may have issues when it comes to getting too close to someone. She may feel you two were moving too fast, and she was not ready for committment. Also, you might simply be blind to the fact that she does NOT feel what you *think* she feels for you. You may have read too much into her initial interest in you, and would like to believe she "loves" you - whereas to her, you were just a passing fling, and she's not even thinking about you anymore. Who knows. One thing is clear - she does NOT want to be with you. My advice - not every relationship works out; move on.
2007-03-04 04:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still love you, but not want to be with you because she doesn't like the way you make her feel.. That's just one example. Or maybe she doesn't think it will work out between the two of you because things were not going the way she thought they should.
2007-03-04 04:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by SnoAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did nothing wrong the a second chance doesn't apply to you. It applies to you giving her a second chance. Obviously she doesn't know what she wants. You really need to ask your self if you want 'drama' in your life.
Good Luck.
2007-03-04 04:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by JNM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt' want to get back together for the same reason she broke up with you...you might need to ask her why..find out..then you'll know why she doesn't want to get back together
best of luck :)
2007-03-04 04:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the age old break up line is ........... its not you its me, you've done nothing wrong, i need time away to grow, give her some time and see what reaction you get from her but dont push her
2007-03-04 04:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by mezzy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know there is someone eles? YOU DONT .. dont be a fool ask her not us! Time tells all between people
2007-03-04 04:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋