I really like/liked this guy. I have been trying to get him to notice me by styling my hair and stuff, and he seemed to look at me. But unfortunately a girl named Emily, she is quite nice to me and all, she told me that he is going out with her. I was so heartbroken and depressed. I have been waiting this long for him to notice me and wasted my valuable time just for this ******* piece of crap? what a **** waste of time. It's no use. I tried my best and I failed. I am very sad and this is causing me problems. I was bursting into tears, screaming and smashing my stuff in my room. Only this is affecting my social life, family, studies and friends. I don't know what to do. It's affecting my whole life now. I can't even sleep at night because of this. I don't want this to continue. I want to end this but it is still in my head and can't get it out. Please help?? What can I DO?
2007-03-03 19:32:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be happy that hes happy, if its meant to be it will be eventually. Chill out and relax how ever you relax.
2007-03-03 19:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all stop smashing up your crap and throwing a tantrum. So you like this guy and he is seeing someone else. While you were working so hard to impress this guy, there is no telling who else noticed you. You can either waste more valuable time on it or you can suck it up and move on. Know it hurts. Soon as you focus on something or better yet someone else the pain will go away. Life's too short and this is just a bump in the road. You've got to stop obsessing on it or it will consume you.
2007-03-03 19:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by psykobarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first chill calm down this guy is not worth it you will meet someone in the right time right moment right day and then ull truly feel what love is........u sound like a young girl and i think i have an idea of how u feel but just dont think about it keep ur self positive tomorrow will be a better day do not cry for something u never had focus on things that are worth ur precious time serious ok hope this helps out a liltle bit
2007-03-03 19:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just infuation thus I don't see why you're so upset. Now that you know he's got a gf, move on with your life. Have a wider cicle of friends and do things you enjoy. Time will heal all pains. Stop the temper/tandrums. Nobody owes it to you. You need to sort out your thoughts.
2007-03-03 19:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, everything happens for a reason. if it was ment to be then it will happen sooner or later. while you were styling your hair and stuff, did you ever be yourself? most guys like girls who are them selves and noone else. the only thing you can really do now, is be hapy for them and try to move it.
2007-03-03 19:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by angelsentfrmabve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that you cannot always get what you want. Move on and stop contradicting your username "FREE SPIRIT".
Try diverting your energy into stuff you enjoyed doing before he "broke" your heart without even knowing.
Good LUCK
2007-03-03 19:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia-Joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are operating on limited info. You need to ask him about his availability. Whats going on in his mind doesn't = anyone Else's ideas. This question will also let him know your interested without exposing yourself to harshly.
2007-03-03 19:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to get over it he did ever ask you out so be happy for Emily and find you some one bobby to love OK
2007-03-03 19:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If you really love him, then you would want them to be happy, nomatter who their with. You can still be jelous, are you friends with him? Cherish the friendship you have, as if you tell him you love him and he's with someone else HE loves, then that would ruin your friendship.
2007-03-03 19:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by trav1085 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jump off a bridge?...jk get one of your friends or if you are close with one of your parents and just vent. let all your feelings out. talk to them. possibly even talk to them like it were the girl or the guy just to get it out of your system.
2007-03-03 19:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋