What should i do about almost every week she ask me for money like between 30 to 80 dollars sometimes less I ask her who else do you ask for money beside me and she told me nobody. I like her and she like me we cool but i hate giving her money every week the reason she ask me for money because she don t have that much money to work with and she live in a group home like a shelter she work but the money not enough for her? how can i talk to her about me not lending her money every week i don t know what to do i feel like i what to help her find a way to make money? We plan to go out this week and i what to try to bring her to my house.
She say she like me because i kind, nice and sweet. I like to help her but give her money every week more then 20 dollars sound too much. I hope when i go out with her that she don t make me buy expensive things. When she ask me for money i feel a little dispointted and she say please?
2007-03-03 19:31:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She say she will try to pay me back when her income tax come but it not going to be much like about 100
2007-03-03 19:33:15 · update #1
sounds like she is going to be broke around income tax time, too! seriously, you need to let her know that you can't keep shelling out money to her like you are Bank of America. if she is working and she isn't getting enough money, then she needs to find a new job. but if she lives in a group home then she can't have any bills so there is no need for her to keep getting money from you. sounds fishy..................
2007-03-03 19:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by MISTER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to regulate the amount you give her. Its not bad helping the girl you like, but i think 30-80 dollars is too much. She can still call you sweet and nice if you do something better besides giving her money.
2007-03-03 19:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Easton 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to say something to her let her know that you can t afford to give her money every week tell her that you have bills to pay and i have to take care of myself. You work hard for your money to be giving it away like that or the next time she ask you tell her that you don t have it and see what she will say don t make her use you like that she can t force you to give it to her.
2007-03-05 17:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful, if shes already openly asking for money now its not going to get any easier. Jus have a talk with her to see what her real intension are and tell her you enjoy her friendship but your going to stop giving her money because its making you have mixed feelings. See if she sticks around.
2007-03-03 19:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to say NO MORE MONEY and mean it. It sounds like that's all that she
is interested in. You can ask her to repay you but it may never happen. Kick her
thieving butt to the curb. You are worth more than some girl who is out to get
everything she can from you. Please take my advice. You can do better for yourself than her. Good luck. I think that you are going to need it.
2007-03-11 20:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she halfway attractive? Make her start paying you back with S-E-X, homie.
"You want another $40? Alright, girl ... assume the position. Face down, azz up. I ain't no damn ATM, your azz is gone get WORKED tonite."
Or have a party for your buddies at your place, and have her over to "service" everyone, maybe even pull a "train" on her. The fellas would have something to tell their grandkids about, for sure!
Do it just like that. Trust me, otherwise you'll never get ANYTHING out of it, cuz you KNOW she has no intention of ever paying you back with money.
2007-03-03 19:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tom T. Hall 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she needs 2 put out to get money dont feel bad as she doesnt actually like u seeing as all she does is use u
2007-03-03 19:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by deathhead721 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you sympathize w/ her situation, but you can't "loan' her any money. I'm pretty sure you yourself work hard at your job to make ends meet, don't give her any money.
2007-03-03 19:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this girl is smart, she is just using you man. she dont like. now quit the hippie sh*t and strap on a helmet.man up
2007-03-03 19:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NO. She either likes you for you, or for your cash. Find out.
2007-03-03 19:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋