He and I do the big "M" word with each other to take the edge off our desire is that considered having sex

Question

He's my heart throb, my desire, my special boy. I've known him since we were both young teens. I've dated others but I always came back to him. He's perfect in all ways. Now I just turned 18 and he's still a boy of 17 (he turns 18 in July). I love my boy but need to wait for a few more years before I can give him what all males want. Anyway my question is if we passionately kiss and hold each other while he uses his capable but gentle hands to make me shudder with delight as I hold him and pull him until he cant hold back any longer is that considered sex? I dont think it is and that I'm still a virgin (him too).

Answer 1

Yes your still a virgin, but a very naughty one. This type of activity is actually better than having sex and if more young people would stop here instead of going all the way there would be a lot less STD's and young mothers.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm sorry to be the "bringer of bad news", but sexual sin is not exclusive to the act of sexual intercourse. Anything that leads your mind in a sexual direction is probably not where you should be, mentally or spiritually, with each other.
In Song of Songs 2:7, the Lord says "Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires".
God created sex to be a beautiful thing, inside the boundaries of marriage. That includes anything and EVERYTHING having to do with taking your mind/body in a sexual direction.
The Lord also asks us to have self-control in our lives--to flee from things that would harm us physically, mentally, and spiritually. You said that you play with each other, so to speak, "to take the edge off our desire". However, the last time I checked, when my husband and I do the same thing with one another, all it does is arouse us more. So I think you may be fooling yourself into believing that this is ok, as long as you're not actually having intercourse (which is a total lie from Satan).
I think it will behoove you, especially when you're entering into a marriage relationship [possibly with someone else, other than this guy], to be of a pure heart. And I think he will feel honored, as well, that you decided to wait for EVERYTHING sexual to be "experimented" with him alone. :)
Blessings to you. And I pray for Truth to set you free in this area.

Answer 4

well, first of all your "RIGHT" you should wait 18 is actually not even the start of your life! BE a teenager and go for your dreams, when sex gets involve in peoples life's it does more damage then good in all reality!! AND NO 4PLAY is not considered SEX but it DOES lead to that, so I guess that is a question you need to ask your self are you truly ready to take that step remember its a very important one and will stay with u for life!! good luck darling!!

Answer 5

Just one way to find out for sure! If he did this with another girl, would YOU consider it sex? What if you did this with another guy? Would he consider that having sex? If the answer is no, then no.

Answer 6

I'm a virgin too and I do this type of stuff as well because it is NOT considered sexual intercourse.

But don't worry if you're having fun go on... Modern virgins have the best orgasms ever.... LOL

Answer 7

Although you are technically still a virgin, anything involving your privates, constitutes sex (remember Bill Clinton? Yes, THAT was sex!)
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Answer 8

Unless there is penetration of his penis into your virginia you're still a virgin. No sex was involved. However, be cautioned with heavy petting. It would lead to sex someday.

Answer 9

I could't figure out what the big "M" word was at first. No, masturbation or mutual masturbation or masturbating eachother is not sex in my opinion, but you can bend the rules however you want in order to fit your desires, but you may as well just do what you want.

Answer 10

It is not sex in the way that it is generally understood and accepted in society. It is sexual and you are orgasmic which is to your credit as you will not wonder about your sexual compatibility or chemistry on the night of your wedding.