My Girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, and she is a stripper. We use to have sex all the time, great sex. The past year she has gotten more and more distant we have had sex twice this year so far and both times she just lays on her side as if to say get it over with. Ive tried everything...she doesn't even dress up for me anymore...I dont understand how she can ride on strangers but not on me...Its gotten so bad that I have started looking at myself as the main problem....I dont think Im ugly....Maybe she has felt so many guys that...mine just bores her and is not adequit now...I dont know what to do....She gets messages and phonecalls on her days off from "customers" who she say mean nothing..yet she deletes messages and call history now...but she always comes home on time....I am on the brink of just giving up...lease give me some insight...cause apparently I'm lost
2007-03-03 19:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Ace D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, she is a stripper. Sex is her business. She's probably not bored with sex... just bored of sex with you.
Why would you wife a woman who bends her butt over in front of other men for dollars anyway? You must have some seriously low standards.
2007-03-03 19:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Itcould have nothing todo with the fact that she is a stripper. Unfortunately thats just what happens alot of the time in relationships. The sex is great and frequent in the beginning. But as time goes on it gets less and less. Yes there could be more to it than that. But maybe not. If she is acting different, then I would investigate. Have you even talked to her about it? Might be a good idea.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-04 03:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems like things are cooling off bro...don't get discouraged...it's not the end, just yet. I would try and talk about it though, definately. Ask her what's up...if she doesn't want to talk about it, then there you go...something is up...it may not be that she is cheating on you, but that she is just tired of doing the thing...if this is a fling type of thing that has been going on for 4 years, then it could be getting old for her, but if there have been some "I Love You's" said between the both of you, then that is something else entirely.
Bottom Line: Talk to her/communicate, and get to the bottom of her issue, before her actual bottom bro.
Peace.
2007-03-04 03:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what, surprise her, try to pleasure her, because if you want her to be more involved with you, fill her needs. do sumthing new, have you ever gave her oral sex? have you ever tried *** sex with her? also if she likes funny people, how about you strip for her, o you know whats real good, when you tease her. teasing makes the the other person want you more. so how about you tease her like you start kissing on her neck thern stomache then hips then upper thighs, then back to the stomache. shell be really turned on. also its kinda weird but have rough sex with her, and also if u like and if she likes it, lick her ***, weird but gurls like it.
2007-03-04 05:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by ***Mz.Christina*** 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well since you think you're lost I recommend using Yahoo Maps...it always helps me out
2007-03-04 03:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you said she rides customers...is she a whore or a stripper?! theres a BIG difference!
2007-03-04 03:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bambi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont you mean hookers?
2007-03-04 03:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋