My girlfriend / ex or watever she is we havent quite figured it out yet recently cheated on me and moved in with her grandparents after leaving my our apartment tuesday. She slept with another man (jsut slept not sex) and i still love her anyway. I want to show her i love her still and show her how much i care for her. She thinks all im going to do is try and have sex with her, (i would like to make love with her not sex) only to show i love her. I would really like to know if you gusy have any advice as to go about this. She was once pregnent with my child and we lost it and i still want to be with her we've been together for 2 years and were looking to get engaged. I want to show her to a good night and also show her how much i appreciate ehr and love her. I would like to spend "TIME" with her like i have never done before as in like a time where its me not hiding or her not hiding how can i get her to open up to me and let me back into her heart and let me show her i love her
2007-03-03 19:04:22 · 17 answers · asked by Breseis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"She slept with another man (jsut slept not sex)"= Holy Molly
common man, dont be naive, we all know what happened tht night....move on buddy....but if you still love her, go ahead.
2007-03-03 19:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't "get" her to open up to you. She will open up if she feels comfortable - but sounds to me like you guys have some issues that are complicating your relationship. The advice I would give is - don't be 1) too desperate, or 2) too pushy. Just be yourself, have a good time with her - but don't be all over her in any way. OK, she has this crazy idea that you only want her for sex; well, don't bring up sex at all, keep your hands to yourself, and enjoy the conversation. I'm not really sure what her problem is - I don't get it how can a girl be with someone for two years, and be convinced that this person is only with her because of sex; that's just silly. It sounds to me like she, herself, doesn't know what she wants - and it can be kind of a dangerous situation for you, as you could get your heart broken very easily. Just be careful, ok. Good luck.
2007-03-03 19:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you love her before / more than you love yourself .She's so lucky .I think her sleeping with another guy was a HINT , she said no sex to see if you would forgive her ,.You said she's coming over , then she knows exactly how you feel and wants to have sex to later say , I am so sorry that one night ....but it didn't mean anything honest ! Sweet heart beware of that person , It seems she's a thinker & user .Please keep track or her track record . Hope you understand , want sex with her ,fine but do as the last guy seems to have done .Have sex and send her on her way .Sorry ladies !
2007-03-03 19:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to sit down with her and find out what went wrong and why she cheated. COMMUNICATION is the only way you can fix things. You need to find out if she still loves you and wants to make it work as well. If she thinks all you want is sex, then DON'T try and "make love" to her right now. Just try and talk things out. Te best way to show her you love her is to respect her wishes right now.
Good luck!
2007-03-03 19:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex...make love...f**k....it all is the same action no matter how its spinned. If you want to show her you love her than show her in other ways besides making love. Cuddle up and watch a movie, talk, compliment her. She will enjoy all of these things and you will catch her off guard by not having sex with her and it will prove to her ur not just looking for sex. most likely she will appreciate that. as for gettin engaged i would hold off on that and take it slow.
2007-03-03 19:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take her out for tea and be very romantic ( flowers at table, candle ) tell her again and again how much you love her. Then after drop her off at her Grandparents place. No sex!!!!!! If she doesn't gush over that she never will. Good luck my friend.
2007-03-03 19:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SweetSara gave the smart answer. Kudos Sara. You have brains and class. Take her advice. I was gonna give it but Sara said it first. Perfect answer. Good luck.
2007-03-03 19:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mate, the thing is....once ppl cheat...they Fockin do it again...i dunno why....but look...i love my GF a lot too...we will marry in years...but if she cheated on me...and unless she comes crying with regret and truly wants forgiviness, i would even consider and think about it instead of accepting her just like that just becos i love her. Love is all bout trust, without trust love doesnt work. How do u noe if she didnt have sex with him? unless u were there and saw that nothing happened...but u neva noe if they guy touched her and let her...so i would say i would break up with her...i noe it hurts...but wat will u do when ur like 40 and she cheats again...wouldnt u have prefered to be with someone else who would be faithful to u and love you as u love her?
2007-03-03 19:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Marty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its no longer good thought for you lady pal to stay in her Ex... greater advantageous attempt to convice her to no longer do the element. talk dude! there is not any longer something impossible! Its your love you may desire to be waiting to cajole her. good success!
2016-09-30 04:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the sex cores. You guys need to start over... REALLY!
2007-03-03 19:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia-Joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋