well my older bro who is 16 has this older friend named tom and i love him so much but i cant controll it like he will take me swimming and i will be by him the whole time. What should i do?
2007-03-03 18:55:20 · 19 answers · asked by XxBeautiful DiastorxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just have a bit of a crush on someone you admire. I don't think you are old enough to have a relationship with a boy, never the less, this one, so take it easy. You'll probably get over it when you notice a cute boy in your school XD
2007-03-03 18:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off you're wayyyy too young to feel REAL love...what ur feeling is either a major crush or the fake puppy love. Both are common around ur age. Stay away from older men for sure they only use you. Just focus on ur schooling and family and friends..dont worry about guys until ur older.
2007-03-04 03:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marty, I have seen the 16 and 22yr old case too. Lol you are out of your mind. this is probably just a crush you have on him. Does this guy like or love you? just because he takes you swimming doesnt mean he loves you, he is just doing a favor for his friend's sister.
2007-03-04 03:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him but let him go. that a huge age gap and would probley never work. it's ok to have him as a good friend. learn from it. he will always be there to go swimming with and have fun but right now try to let go. hey maybe you will find a sweet guy your age! look around theres more fish in the sea!
2007-03-04 03:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to gain his love. I think it might work out. If it doesn't, there's always 3 billion other guys in the world and maybe just one of them is better than this one.
My parents age difference is by 15 years. And im like....what the heck happened??...
2007-03-04 03:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not coz he is just like ur big brother,i m also 13 & my brother also has a friend of 24 but i dont stay with him all the time just hi,hello
2007-03-04 03:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by blue_fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi boy crazy,
in ur case the age is no bar. but wait till 18. that's the right age to take any major decision. let know ur feelings to that guy. take his opinion and then go ahead. all the best. enjoy the life!
2007-03-04 03:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in love you just have a crush, I suggest you stay away from him find other activities you dont want to get him into trouble. His and adult and yur just a little girl, am sure he has a girlfriend or dates women his age.
2007-03-04 03:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are probably not "IN love." You may be "In lust". Or just have a schoolgirl crush. Whatever you do, do not act on it! Try and involve yourself with other activities and boys your own age. You have to forget about this man.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 03:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and keep out of trouble messing around with older men who will use you eventually!
2007-03-04 02:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋