Now me and my gf have been going out for just over a year. Recently friends have been telling me that she flirts with other boys. Sometime s i see it but i never say anything. When i did tell her that, she said she wasnt and then we got into a fight. I love her, but i feel insecure and hurt all the time her friends tell me that she if flirting, what do i do?
2007-03-03 18:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd leave her if i was you she is going to get worse and end up cheating on you .. these are sure early signs.
2007-03-03 18:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Been Married for over 3 years to a woman who is 8 years younger than me and she flirts like crazy.
Trust me get rid before you end up in the mess I'm in.
Flirting is not cheating but it hurts like hell. Just like you I've had it done right in front of my face. Again you will find that this sort of behaviour brings out the worst in you. Ive nearly been close to the edge because of the things she has done. Shes just not worth it. Let her flirt and you get rid!
Its an old cliche but what goes around comes around. Your time will come just not with the woman you are with.
In the end she will fall for someone who will treat her just as crappy and realise what shes lost. You cant respect what you have until its gone.
Trust me get rid.
Regards idai
2007-03-03 19:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he's involved in you extra advantageous than in the different ladies. i think of applicable now what you're able to do is basically have exciting with it! Flirt with him on occasion, yet do no longer do it over the right. i think of in case you do no longer practice any activity in him, he will become bored and quit attempting. So drop diffused tricks which you have an activity in him. See the place that ends up in, and in case you men take place to step into the "boyfriend female pal courting" zone, pay close interest how he acts with different ladies. that would not propose secret agent on him each and every of the time. If he nonetheless flirts with various women, then tell him at as quickly as up and beneficial which you think of he's no longer the type for you. tell him you prefer a comfortable and severe courting, and don't tolerate it whilst your boyfriend flirts with different ladies. He could get the message, and if he fairly likes you, he will quit. If he nonetheless flirts with different ladies, basically act like no longer something between you and him handed off. beneficial, you're able to be pals, yet no extra advantageous than that. He would ask your self you, and practice the different ingredient of him :) good success!
2016-12-14 10:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no cheating in flirting alone. If she tends to take it further like going off with a guy she is flirting with then I would be worried but until that time I would just talk to her and tell her how it makes her look and how it makes you fell.
2007-03-03 18:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be honest with you. Be a man, let her noe how u feel, tell her if she would like to see u flirting with other women, and hear that from her friends, how that would make her feel. Tell her everything. Dont pour all ur love to a girl who flirts with other guys, becos that means shes looking for some other guy.
2007-03-03 18:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Marty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what? Flirting is not cheating. It has nothing to do with her feelings about you. flirting is very innocent. she is still a girl, she needs to express it. It is very hard to explain to you , why we do it, but believe me it is not to hurt you, or disrespects you, it is just in our nature. We love attention, and we like to be liked. I am love with one person, and i mean it, i would do anything for him, but i still flirt at work, or when i am out with girlfriends, but it does not mean anything to me. I still think of him all the time.
2007-03-03 18:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just having a bit of fun. She can look, but not touch right? There is no harm in it, and if you have seen her doing it, that just means she won't do anything. Don't panic too much, it's been a year right, she's with you for the long haul.
2007-03-03 19:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by k_irs_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That fact that she does this in front of you shows that she is flirtatious by nature or habit. If she can't control her flirtation towards other guys for you, or is not even willing to try, then it's time to let that bird fly. You can do better. There are plenty of girls out there willing to treat their guy like he's her special someone.
2007-03-03 18:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kurohana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you flirt with other girls? Some people flirt for no real good reason, they just do it. If it doesn't bother you when she does it around you, why should it bother you when you are not? Please sit down and have a nice, calm discussion about it. Take care.
2007-03-03 18:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to tone it down a bit. tell her you don't mind her talking to other guys, but don't give them the impression that you like them. if she doesn't tone it down then begin flirting with other girls right in front of her. if she gets mad, you can tell her that's exactly the way you feel
2007-03-03 18:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her, look another honest girl once a lire every time lire i had the same problem i break up with my boy friend after 2 years relationship
2007-03-03 18:56:31 · answer #11 · answered by noona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋