Ok so i am 16 and he is 21 we met online but have not met face to face yet and my parent wont let me met him. but we want to meet really bad i mean we love each other as much as we can with out really knowing each other. I just dont understand why my parent wont let me meet him? Someone Please tell me why parent forget what its like to be young
2007-03-03 18:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by fiddle_playing_sweetheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok he thought i was 18 when we first started talking and i have seen him on a web cam way more then once and yeah maybe he does what sex but it my body my life my virginity my choice not their and hes already said he will wait for me
2007-03-03 19:01:15 · update #1
Oh and its 16 where we live to consent to sex and he is a man but i am far from a child i have been a mother to my nephew since i was ten and i do all the cooking and clean i grew up to fast trust me
2007-03-03 19:09:40 · update #2
Reason #1 why your parents will not let you meet a 21 year old MAN... because you are a child.
Your parents need to be reported. They are aware you're hooking up with men online and still allow you to use a computer at crazy hours.
For the record, this man does not love you. He loves sex. The two are not related.
2007-03-03 18:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As grown up as you may think you might be at 16, you are still 16 and have much to learn about the world and people. At 21 there is a BIG difference. If you were 20 and he was 25 it would NOT be a big deal. What kind of guy is 21 and is trying to pick up a 16 year old? Legal or not in your state, keep your first experience special.
2007-03-03 20:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rico E Suave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you never really know people "online". Secondly, he's 21 ... you're 16. You know he wants to sex you up, and that will get him on the sex offender registry for the rest of his life. If he's so great, why can't he get with a 19 or 20 or 21 year old girl? Why's he gotta go for the younger, illegal, more naive ones? (no offense).
Your parents remember what it's like to be young, but their number one concern is for YOUR SAFETY, because whether you will acknowledge it or not, they (should) love you above all else in their lives.
If you insist on not dropping this guy, see if your parents will agree to let you meet him ... under THEIR supervision. Could be as simple as you meeting him at the food court at the mall ... and your dad could be sitting at a table nearby, reading the paper and glancing over at you and checking out the scene ... you never know, the guy could be a fat, old 45 year old LIAR!!
But on the real, your folks know that a 21 year old guy will stereotypically want SEX, and they'll be DAMNED if he's gonna get a chance to dip his pen in YOUR inkwell, if ya knowwhum'sayin.'
2007-03-03 18:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tom T. Hall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's were your wrong, love. They do remember and that's why they wont let their 16 year old be with a 21 year old!!!!! We were young once and made mistakes and we can see our children making them in front of us and will do whatever it takes to prevent it happening to our babies. If a 21 year old wants a 16 year old it's not saying much for them. Listen to your parents.
2007-03-03 18:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents may forget what its like to be young but i think in this case it may be that ur parents know whats best he would be too old for u even if u hadn't met online, if u really love him then when ur 18 u can try to meet him
2007-03-03 18:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by wafflehouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wrong. I think your parents remember exactly what its like to be young and that is why they are not allowing you to meet this person. Frankly this man is too old for you and I would seriously question his motives.
2007-03-03 18:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by binga_4980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can be some kind of lunatic.Maybe he is not,but there are so many sick people out there.Plus I don't even think it is legal.
2007-03-03 18:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE I ONCE SAW THIS MOVIE AND THIS GIRL MET A GUY ONLINE AND HE ENDED UP BEING A SEXUAL PREDITOR .SO STOP TALKING TO STRANGE MEN ONLINE .UNLESS YOU KNOW THEM
2007-03-03 18:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that guy could be a rapist you dont know the real him
2007-03-03 18:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋