2007-03-03 18:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by cam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal, casue now you are moved in and actully became ONE in evreything! its normal, just be understanding, and let things go, dont make a huge thing about the little fights ... things WILL get back to normal
2007-03-03 18:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now your always in the same house everyday and that can be hard for some people . Not sitting around alone wondering if you'll see each other that day .Money is now more ours than his / hers . Bills as well .( you don't mention "kids ?" ) And when dating we get the house picked up before the other person gets there , now you see how each other cleans or doesn't .A little space , no not moving out .One might stay and watch TV in the living room , while the other might stay away in the Kitchen or bedroom .Space is needed some .To relax alone from time to time.If you sit next to the person every time the phone rings and listen , that's worse than living with parents ! Or trying to be the parent , Where , what , when . why .who ???? Give a little and save a lot . Fighting takes two , one should just Listen while the other expresses what is bothering them and AFTER listening , then reply .If that doesn't work , just say you right . Want to talk about it or Your right , want to tell me how this will work out for us ? Let the person be right , who cares as long as you really know the person is wrong and love them enough not to fight , but work it out .Wait until he becomes sick , he'll expect you to be like a mother to his whining .LOL ( If the fighting is physical LEAVE , that will only get worse ! ) But verbal is normal adjusting .
2007-03-04 02:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only get worse. Dump this guy. Do not be in a sh*tty relationship cuz you feel you have an obligation or cuz it is good 30% of the time. Every couple has problems but this sounds excessive and is good for noone no matter who is at fault. Someday you will find the right person. You will know when. You reaching out for advice now tells me that this aint the dude.
Good Luck.
2007-03-04 02:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Savage Weed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have come together, yet from two different households, with different ways of doing things. Please sit down, over coffee or something good to snack on, and make a list of things that need to be done around the house. Divide the chores accordingly. Who cooks what and when, for breakfast, dinner, etc. Let each other know when you are going out with other friends, etc. It's called mutual respect, and good communication.That is what is needed in all relationships. Take care.
2007-03-04 02:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUMMMMM your not married what are you doing living together? ever heard of the saying why buy the cow if your getting the milk for free. he is taking advantage of you and is realizing that he can not be a HUSBAND. Get!!! Get out NOW, your worth more then that. Be married before you move in and you will see that the adjustments are in a much smoother transformation. God married the first human couple before he let them be together first so why would you expect that the creator of marriage would want any less for you???
2007-03-04 02:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by janet F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the good reasons to live together for a while before
getting married....
You sometimes find that you don't really want to marry the person.
Don't invest more than 2 - 3 yrs. in a relationship without marriage.
Don't have kids out of wedlock...
Get a pre-nup before marriage....
2007-03-04 02:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i went through THE SAME THING...LOL..its just a hugh adjustment ......u will get used to it but definitely keep urcommunication up... without opne lines of communication ur screwed...make sure both of u guys were ready for this too...talk about what pisses u off about eachother and find ways to ease the tension...both of u guys r in eachothers space 24/7 now so its gonnma take some adjusting..
2007-03-04 02:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by jaysangel040106 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take sometime to get used to u guys being in the same house. with different schedules it can be a hassle but if theres no progress move out
2007-03-04 02:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by random at its finest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u chose the wrong person.its a minor thing,people break up,people 'glued' to each other.couples may have fights all the time,then they glue to each other again.you really need someone you can POSITIVELY trust for good,that understands your feelings.....and that's the perfect boyfriend.i know,sometime you 'll find the perfect one for you,or perhaps,glue to each other again.
2007-03-04 02:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ayesha Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say " you don't really know someone until you live with that person." but i recomend sitting and talking calmly about your problems and think about way in solving your problem, the key is comunication. everybody argues with their spouse all the time its normal, but you have to talk more about things. let him know how you feel about things and hear how he feels about things. good luck!
2007-03-04 02:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by jim j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋