how far is to far when you are a woman of god and dating i know?

Question

marryfirst talk to me.

Answer 1

too far is premarital sex...any kind....holding hands, kissing, making out....all ok....as long as you can stop when you need to, befor that line is crossed and boundaries are broken....but its also a personal decision....if you know that by making out or sumthing you will want to do more...then maybe your own personal boundary should be a kiss or holding hands....you have to pray about it and ask God to show you your own personal boundary =) i praying for you

Answer 2

I completely don't understand that whole marry first thing. Sometimes that don't work. It could be like trying to put a polarized plug in a non-polarized outlet. I don't think you will have to worry because I haven't met a guy yet that has honestly stuck true to a girl that wanted to wait till she was married. I know I wouldn't. Let me put it to you another way. It wasn't far enough. Live for today or tonight and don't worry about tomorrow. Be responsible of course as far as your selection process. The whole waiting till marriage thing is complete nonsense. If you do, the guy you are marrying cheated on you while you were together. Simple as that.

Answer 3

Hey...well I totally don't agree that God hasn't spoken to anyone since Moses. God will speak to you all the time if you are willing to be still and listen. You know in your heart what is right and what is wrong. As a woman of God you shouldn't do anything you would regret in the future. If you think it might not be ok...it probably isn't. You have to set your own standards. I once heard that when you ask this question...the answer is...don't do anything before you are married that you would never do in front of your dad. I know...that's a totally awkward thought..but I think in a lot of ways it really works. Sure you need something physical in your relationship...but holding hands and kissing is probably as far as you should go. I don't think that you would want to put either of yourselves in a situation where it would be too hard to say no. You deserve a guy that is willing to wait for you. There are guys out there of purity and integrity...and they are sooo worth the wait. I met a guy that is sooo awesome..he wants to spend his whole life serving God, and he even was careful about kissing me because he wanted to be totally pure. Save yourself for one that's worth the wait!!...you won't regret it. When you have children in the future you won't have to be ashamed to tell them what your dating life was like when you were younger, as you try to raise them for God, because you will be proud to tell them you waited on God's timing! I hope this helps...God Bless and I'll be praying for you!!

Answer 4

heres a traesure of a question begging an answer! too far for a woman of god would be 3rd base. thats too far! way too far.better yet the last person god actually spoke to was Moses so no worries, do what you want. unless God has spoken to someone else other than Moses then you better listen to them.

Answer 5

I think the making of any sexual thing nesides kissing is to far, being dating isn't as formal as been a sirious couple.

Answer 6

Thats what the book says. What does your faith say? Tough to live in this world as a believer. You still have forgiveness but it is sin. I know how you feel.

Answer 7

This would have to be a personal decision...
Probably something short of actual sex but not too short...
Certainly let him play with all the goodies and perhaps
give him oral....

Answer 8

You've got to have some sort of romance...something other than just chatter...Otherwise, all it would be is friendship...and eventually, he'd lose interest...