im a single mother and i have 2 years long distance relationship(he is in NYC im here in Ireland) wer planning to get married july next year but the problem is he dont want to tell his family that im a single mother even if he love my son coz his family not that understanding... please what should i do?
2007-03-03 18:05:19 · 8 answers · asked by sweet24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Is his family important to him? If yes, then you two need to resolve that issue or it will come back to bite you later. If he wants the family to think well of you, they need to know you come as a package deal. If he is okay with that, that is all that matters. Get it straight now. Wouldn't your son be at the wedding and in it? Thnik about it. Where do you plan to live? How invovled will he be with the family. Then WHEN would they meet his new son? So many questions, so little time.
2007-03-03 18:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUM-MM strange predicament your in there little lady. I would ask my self what is he hiding you from? or what is he hiding from you. I am sure he is a nice guy BUT there are RED flags going on here better get to the bottom of it before you invest even more time in this relationship. I am sure that it might be nothing. How about sending his family a picture of the 3 of you and on the back say Greetings From or Missing you hope we can all be together soon. How old is your son? that might be a good piece of information. HUM MM Hope he is not a child molester no one should be ashamed to say I am dateing a girl with a child. They might be more receptive to you knowing that you have live experiences ect. ( not in a bad way.) How old are the two of you and why is wedding so far in the future??? so many questions so many answers....
2007-03-04 02:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by janet F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are planning to marry this person. Have you even met his family. I feel like if someone asks me to marry him, he would want the world to know who I was and be proud of the fact that he loves my child and would want to include the child as a part of his family. If he doesn't want to tell them, I would be concerned if he really loved me. I would ask a lot of questions, about why!
2007-03-07 16:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by GrammieN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he going to do...hide your son from them the rest of your life? If he is embarrassed now, how does it get better later?
Not too impressed with this guy....if he can't handle his family, you are in for problems. Beware!
2007-03-08 00:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that his family is quite important to him which isn't a bad thing but they should respect his decision to marry you and also he should be man enough to tel them and not worry about wat their opinion is. You love him and he loves you and thats all that matters. Speak to him about this. They'll have to find out sooner or later so why not now.
2007-03-04 07:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is telling his family the truth about you.
2007-03-04 09:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry him
2007-03-04 03:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find someone else
2007-03-04 02:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋