I'm currently in my senior year and deep in love with a girl that i have been dating for a year when May hits. My plan after High School, before dating her was to go to PV University and major in Mechanical Engeering on a baseball and academic scholarship and then mabye go pro if good enough.
Me and my g/f have been talkin about being togather forever however we have college next and are paths are differant, which could seperate us. Neither one of us want the other 2 change schools to be with each other, but should i do it anyway. I have this feeling though if i lose this girl i would be losing the girl of my dreams the girl that was suppose to be my wife. What should i do? I'm willing to change my future to preserve are love but wut if doesn't work out anyway, don't wanna change all that for nothing. Should i really follow my heart like they say?
2007-03-03 18:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow you education plans. If your girl truley loves you she would let you go follow your dreams. You both could still have a future even if you both wont be together for college. When you guys don't see each other in college just let her know that you love her.
2007-03-03 18:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go your separate ways for now. You need an education if you want to make the rest of your life work. And if you have scholarships to this school, then you definitely shouldn't consider going to another school where life will be even harder. Leaving behind someone you care about is never easy, but if you have a true bond, in a year or two when the two of you are more secure, she will still be there.
Think about it this way: What kind of life will the two of you have if you end up working at McDonalds because you had to drop out of college because you didn't take the scholarships and couldn't afford tuition? Get yourself on firm ground before committing to a relationship. You owe it to her, yourself, and your children (providing things go that far).
2007-03-03 18:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jensenfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your plans for the first year. See how traveling back and forth works for you two. After the first year you two can sit down and have a long talk about how things are going, and what your next step is. Whether to continue your long distance relationship or one of you transfer schools... or whatever else may come out of it.
Let me tell you, those college years are a time for a lot of big changes. You might not recognize yourself by the time it's over, and you could miss a big part of a major time of self discovery. Please don't let that slip through your fingers.
Good luck.
2007-03-03 18:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following your heart and continuing your education should not be mutually exclusive- you shouldn't have to PICK one. If this relationship was meant to be- it will last throughout both of your educations. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
Good luck with love and school!
2007-03-03 18:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by verdes0j0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means follow your educational plan. Girlfriends come and go, but a university degree lasts forever. It'll be worth it in the end.
2007-03-04 04:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Education has got to be THE priorty for you now. If you are meant to be with your girl it will happen. Do not by any means change your plans especially if a scholarship is involved
2007-03-03 18:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue with your education. If the relationship is meant to be, it will be when you both are done with college. Then you can live a happy, financially stable life together! Good luck.
2007-03-03 18:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your education plans. that way you have something definite to fall back on in the future
2007-03-03 18:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by K R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋