My girlfriend hates her dad that left her as a baby. She says she doesn't care about him at all, and I believe it, but I think she will never get over the neglect until she faces him. She's a forgiving person, and I think she'd forgive him, that's what's worrying me, she's so non-hateful, but she hates her dad with all her heart. It's not good for her and I want to help her. I'm glad she has a stepdad that loves her.
2007-03-03 17:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay out of it. it might make it worse
2007-03-03 18:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how she can hate a person she has never met. Oh well, that doesn't matter. The important thing is for you to stay out of it. As much as you want to help her, and that is nice of you, she should deal with this herself. Unless she specifically comes to you asking for advice, don't give it.
2007-03-03 18:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's real, my stepdad hated all my boyfriends, until the single i've got been with for the longest. He went as much as my stepdad at some point and in simple terms started out up a verbal substitute and everytime my stepdad tried letting it die down he saved it going. consult with him approximately something you have in common including fishing, automobiles, or looking. solid luck, in case you stick around for a on the same time as then he will come around too.
2016-10-02 08:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are her personel feelings.you cant do much about this.just try to avoid the topic.
2007-03-03 18:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be on her side no matter what.she needs a friend like you that cares and understands her.....hugs
2007-03-03 18:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋