Ok, lets say I'm a guy you've known for a while. Then I start trying to date you. Then you blow off my calls and I reacted by telling you to stop playing mind games and grow up. What would you think of my behavior?
Be honest...
2007-03-03 17:51:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound very hurt, perhaps you became attached to the idea that you and the girl would be an item, and when it did not happen you reacted with anger. It is a bit immature, because your communication was just to hurt her, the way you felt she hurt you. Instead of being so negative with your response, perhaps next time you could use more of a nonvilolent communication.
From what you wrote, I think she wasn't interested and was just trying to let you down with out having to tell you she wasn't into you. Now she can just use the excuse of you acting immature to end it. When really she probably wasn't into it. I don't think it was mind games, more of not wanting to hurt you by directly saying it.
Then again, this is all just kind of what I think based on the little info you wrote.. I may be off.. Good luck!
2007-03-03 18:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...no woman is really going to react positively to being told to "stop playing mind games and grow up," ya know? I mean, even if you're right (and I have no way of knowing if you are or not), you're pretty much going to get a negative reaction on that one.
2007-03-04 01:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by romipenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i probably would be upset with you and think you were a jerk. sorry! (you said to be honest) that is my first gut reaction after reading your question. now, i don't know all the details, but should i assume that the reason you said (or are thinking of saying) that i was playing mind games and to grow up is because you felt i liked you back? guy/girl friendships can be quite confusing. sometimes things might be perceived as "he/she likes me", when the reality is that friendship albeit it, a strong friendship is all that exist. i know unrequited love must be terribly painful, but if its really not meant to be, you can't do anything about it except move on. now the question you need to ask yourself is...is it worth losing this friendship?
2007-03-04 02:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by jnlen0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing mind games and grow up
2007-03-04 01:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she has been busy and couldnt take much calls or maybe she just isnt interested she might just even be shy well comming from me i dont really like to be wanted or i dont want to know that you are just trying to get with me i mean i like to let things flow on its own i like to live life normally act like you dont like her that way just complement something about her then walk away
2007-03-04 02:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Childish, maybe am not interested or maybe you should be patient and wait for my return call, some women feel more important in making the guy wait it makes it more interesting I guess, as for me if I like the guy I will call back and see what his all about.
2007-03-04 02:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is a lack of communication between you two.
If she is ignoring your calls she is trying to tell you "I'm not interested in dating you".
2007-03-04 01:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Junebug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have expected you to do something like that, so it wouldn't really matter. I would just tell you never to ask me out again and leave.
2007-03-04 12:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mean. give her some time, this is probly too fast for her, u need to be more tolerant of a girls feelings. but if uve been dating for a while, i don't know.
2007-03-04 01:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Speed, I Am Speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i would think thtau should stop trying because we r not every going 2 be toghter...........
dude, stop bugging her....i have the sam problem wi this boy in my skool.....the reason why she is doin this 2 u cause she doesnt lik u in that kinda way.....OLNY AS A FRIEND.....mabe your not he type in looks.........or u went even her friend 2 beguin wit.........i dont really know....
2007-03-04 01:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋