okay...i have an idol, and i'm really addicted...no obsessed i think, and everyday i always keep thinking of him, i can't erase him on my mind, and because of that some of the things im making ... i can't concentrate, can some1 help mhe, and answer me do i inlove or wat!!!
2007-03-03 17:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is not obsession. Love is actual concern for the persons well being, accepting them for their good bad and ugly, sees the person on an equal level. Never put someone on a pedestal. Humans are always prone to disappoint one another. Could you handle it if he disappointed you big-time? If not, if you can't see his faults and accept him anyway, then No, you're not in love. If however, the thought of waking up next to him 60 years from now warms your heart, then yeah, that's love girl.
2007-03-03 17:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kurohana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question, then NO YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE!!! When you are actually in love, you just know. I know it sounds crazy, and you might say, "Well, what if I don't figure it out? What if I'm different?" That's not true. You will know. Plus, it is ALMOST impossible to love someone you've never met. To get him off your mind, maybe focus on ONLY the bad things about him, and none of the good (I know that's a terrible thing, but still) and maybe you'll just forget about him one day. (PS please don't judge me by my name, I just thought it was funny)
Good luck.
= )
2007-03-04 01:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Horny IceCream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I've been there before.
Don't worry. Enjoy it. It's part of teens' life. It feels good, right?
When you grow older, you won't find this kind of feelings anymore. The best thing is, the games of thinking what your idol is thinking about you.
Enjoy your life. You'll be fine.
2007-03-04 01:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like dropping your drawers anywhere when he is around you have fallen in heat and you need to run far and fast or your going to regreat the children you have with no father thats not going to be around.
2007-03-04 01:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word you are looking for is infatuated. This is kind of like puppy-love. It also is the most venerable position you can be in. Enjoy but do be cautious.
2007-03-04 01:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird way of saying it but no. He just seems cool and you are kinda lusting for him. Infatuation is what you are feeling. The exaggerated want for someone, and how can you love someone you have never talked to?
2007-03-04 01:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means knowing someone ( how are they when they are sick... broke, in trouble.....) You don't love this person but It is Fun to obsess about someone - Don't let it ruin or affect the real part of your life !
2007-03-04 01:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Beth Owen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say you are. Go to google and search around, I think there might be a personality test to find out.
2007-03-04 01:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear hopeless Romantic,
YOu have Puppy LoVe; it's a terrible disease that attacks are heart. Does he LOvE You??
2007-03-04 01:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in love but u HAVE TO STOP thinking of him.......cause there is not that good of a change of u meeting him.......u can think he is hot and stuff but dont have feeling 4 him............how?? i really dont know.......uhh.........get some other guy in yor life that u have real feeling 4 and really know.....take every thing that u have of that guy and dump it in the trash.........
2007-03-04 01:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋