Theres this guy i have ran into off and on since our love affair 4 years ago. He always comes back up saying he loves me and misses me. then he does some tough form of rejection so i get all obsessed wit him again, then disappears. I finally get over him and bam, hes back. Its begining to feel like h cannot go on unless im obsessed wit him? whats going on here?
2007-03-03 17:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ysau - GOOD IDEA i just sent him an email like this Do u have some kinda problme ( mental or otherwise ) where u have to have me approving of you and liking you? cause it seems liek all the times i wanted u , you coudlnt wait to reject me cause u wanted me to be all sprung for you - then as soon as i move on u always pop up and do just enough to make me feel the same again. is it a mental prlbem that u need my approval? Im onto you rlittle game now and its not cool. is this why u pop up every so often and say how much u miss me and then the next thing you know you just... disappear ? Now im just going to move on for good this time, and i hope u dont try the same shanangians. its obvious those times u tell me how much u care and miss me are just lies - i suggest this time, get some cousneling as to why u feel u need me to be all up on your nuts!!! ok ?? please write back an asnwer im curios to knwo what u have to say for yourself
wat do u think? Good right?
2007-03-03 17:43:42 · update #1
Honestly, I think you answered your own question. If he knows hes wanted, it makes him feel better...better about himself, his personaliy, his looks...everything. You're allowing him to make you feel that way. Dont. Stand up to those feelings and dont be taken in. If he starts calling/texting/emailing (whatever), ignore him. Tell him you're busy or you're going out. Dont let him get the best of you. You dont deserve that.
2007-03-03 17:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's messin' around with your head our it's a coincidence, and he comes back because you reward him with your misery or whatever, so if he makes you this annoyed tell him your question in a more forceful tone unless he's a crier.
2007-03-04 01:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will do as much as you allow him to do and it sounds as if he's only using you. Stop showing your feelings and start rejecting him.
2007-03-04 01:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes to mess/mess around with you, so yeah, give him up and find someone who is a little closer to you. It would be less of a hassle.
2007-03-04 01:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting him do this to you have a talk with him and tell him what this does to you.after you do that then you will see really what his intentions are if he,s not talking poistive and telling what you want to hear move on.
2007-03-04 01:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋