Hey,
Lately I have been in alot of heartache. My girlfriend lied to me about hanging out this kid and the next day it sounds as if she's flirting on the phone with him and having the time of her life with him. I call her to get his number and she won't give it to me. Eventually she gives it to me. So I call the guy up and tell him off. She starts getting mad at me for calling him.
Now she went on vacation and I see she has a new friend that she met during vacation and claims he's a friend. Next I hear that she likes him from a source and when I confront her, she admits to liking him.
BUT, She says she won't ever talk to him again and will stop communicating with him and etc.,.,.,.
Yet she's still talking to him. I don't have a way of proving it, but whenever she signs off, he signs off.I'm sure they still talk.and she still has him on her top 4 on myspace as number 2 which is after me.
HOW DO I CONFRONT HER WITHOUT HER LYING TO ME AND WITH ME STILL BEING WITH HER?
2007-03-03 17:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by emagicservices 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with her
2007-03-03 17:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be so blunt but she is playing you. And as long as your letting her she will play you till you get tired of it. The only way to resolve this matter with a person like her is to detach yourself from her. She will keep hurting you and you deserve better than that. You sound like a good catch for a nice young girl and you dont deserve this kind of treatment. She will eventually see what she has lost. What goes around comes around. God bless and Good luck.
2007-03-03 17:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you gots to chill. If it really bothers you that she is talking to this guy, find a new girl. It's not worth the stress.
Frankly, you have no reason to get involved in talking to the guy. The problem you have is her talking to any other guy. Not just this guy. Move on. There are plenty of hot chicks out there for you to hunt down.
2007-03-03 17:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanted info telling the guy off wasn't the way to go. all that did was piss her off and push her away even more. instead calmly ask the guy what's going on etc. that way he'll tell you if anything is going on with them or not. hell email him through myspace if you have to. that way you won't just be coming at her with assumptions you'll have proof from 'the horses mouth' so to speak. obviously if he's still on her im list and myspace she's still talking with him.
2007-03-03 17:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cud ask your girlfriend to tell you the truth. Be serious but not scary or anything. Ask her whether she likes you more or the other guy. If she says you than tell her to delete that guys number from her phone, get rid of his I.M. ing name and anything else that you can think of that she can communicate wif him with. If she says him, then u r better off without her.
2007-03-03 17:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Please be strong and have more respect for yourself and brains to think this through. She IS lying to you and probably fooling around or wanting to. Is this a good mate for you??? Unless the Drama is a turn on for you - break up and find another human being who is decent!
2007-03-03 17:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Beth Owen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. First of all, it sounds to me like you shouldnt be confronting her at all. Tell her its obvious she needs some time with someone else and you need to find someone you can trust. Basically, tell her you just want to be her friend and you need to move on. Anything else and you are talking stalker realm.
2007-03-03 17:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by jerod_gavel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a much more important question for you: How do you manage to stand upright without a backbone????
Grow a spine and dump the ho
2007-03-03 18:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey yourself. sound like you just need to confront her and let
her know that you know that she been lying to you. and then
do what you need to do, if you know that you cant not trust her
then you dont have much of a relationship any way. you need
to find someone that will appreciate you she not the one ...
2007-03-03 17:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't simple as much as u may want her still. She was at least attracted to someone else so how can she love u to stay with u n thats lust that she feels and lust makes ppl chest budd
2007-03-03 17:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for the truth. She doesn't give it to you no matter what, sorry to say, but your relationship is worth nothing. I hope you two can sort this out.
Best of luck.
2007-03-03 17:29:53 · answer #11 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋