thing is i'm seeing this married guy..he tells me that his relationship with his wife is basiclly shattered....he also tells me that he won't ever lie to me...but this guy is every insecure and jealous... recently he has been telling me that women have been noticing him but never starts the conversation...do i leave him...?
2007-03-03 17:20:28 · 23 answers · asked by stella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes leave him! Hes married....he doesnt have time for you. He says he will never lie to you but he lies to his wife.......tell me how that makes sense!?! Hes cheating on his wife to be with you, aparently life at home isnt so bad or he'd already be divorced. He just wants to be with the both of you as well as other women that come along. And that life can be very dangerous and you DONT want to get yourself invovled. I've seen a similar situation like this that ended tragically, and people dont ever think of it that way. You are playing a dangerous game and all I can say is to get out now. I'm sure your a smart woman and if you know whats best you will leave him!!
2007-03-03 17:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by michelles_sfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never stick with a married guy. Remember on his wedding day, he made promises to his wife... that he would care for her when she's sick and love her for the rest of his life. That's a big promise to give to another especially when both sides of the family is witnessing it. So don't cause any trouble and drop it now.
You should rethink everything about seeing this married man. You don't want to deal with the drama. Go to a person that is single. You both would be "unexperienced" because you don't know each other... how can I say this... well the married man is experienced because he's in a lifetime relationship with his wife... I guess I can say a single person is available.
Good luck with that.
2007-03-04 01:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Guitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your seeing this guy who is married. This shows this guys dishonest already. No he is not going to leave his wife for you. And if he is It sounds to me like he is planning on shopping around for a while. Who is to say if you two did get married he would not do the same to you and be telling the other woman the same thing he is telling you. I would seriously be thinking about this.
2007-03-04 01:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok going with a guy who is married is sooo rong he has a wife if he is so shattered then get a div and I wouldnt want a guy who is jealous so tell him drop it or go I dont think you should be going with anyone else and then leave it at that LOL you go girl
2007-03-04 01:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a married woman right before she got divorced, and here is the problem- you'd never be able to trust him. He is already lying to someone he took a vow with. He's gonna be miserable for a long time anyway.
2007-03-04 01:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by XL HaHa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't lie to you, but does his wife know about you?
Hmmm... A lying, insecure, jealous guy who's unfaithful to the woman he swore to love and be faithful to till death in front of God and family. Yep, sounds like a winner I want in my bed!
(That's pure sarcasm, honey.)
2007-03-04 01:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Pekoe90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He's married, doesn't know how to handle breaking up from his wife and has probably lied 10 times since he said he doesn't lie.
Give him up and find an available, single man who will treat you right.
2007-03-04 01:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello he's married and cheating on the woman he promised his life to! Of course he will lie to you and probably cheat on you, in fact he is now.... with his wife. Leave the loser.
2007-03-04 01:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by flamstrosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave him
i mean the wife is going to find out(thats going to be a problem)
if he is this insecure/jealous guy thats going to be problem
well thats all i have
srry if i wasn't any help
2007-03-04 01:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by luv2dusky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy sounds as sketchy as sixth grader on speed.
Find someone who you can trust. And perhaps someone who doesn't have you so insecure as to send you off to us asking these kind of questions. It should just be comfortable.
2007-03-04 01:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋