I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best friend to her and that she is my personal stalker. Why is she doing this?
I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.
Reasons i might think otherwise are that she spends time during her work to write me letters, calls me during breaks to grab food, and quotes chat conversation from and puts it into her profile.
2007-03-03
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HopelessOne
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➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this poor girl has communication problems. Either she really likes you and doesn't know how to expres it or she is playng a mind game with you to see if you will make the first move. Consider if you really want to be in a relationship like this. Good luck :)
2007-03-03 17:13:29
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answered by ANASTASIA_NIKOLAIEVNA_ROMANOVA 3
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Okay, coming from a girl, she likes you, but doesn't like you.... meaning she wants you, but is scared about ruining the relationship that you both share.... and the reason for her showing you about the guys is just to make you think... maybe to get a little defensive of her or maybe even a litlle jealous... trust me girls like guys who are somewhat controlling... it's a turn on for them.... I use to do what she is doing... it's a tactic for most girls... become your friend like your good friend, then tell you things that you shouldn't know and then talk to you about certain guys then give you hints...
if you like her let her know, there is no reason for you to hold back your feelings... if you don't then just let it ride....
2007-03-04 01:18:15
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answered by Anonymous
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She's being blatantly obvious that she's into you but she might be just wanting fun, not a commitment. Or she could just be desperate and horny. Either way I'd say it's a bad choice to develop a relationship cause she sounds like a crazy to me.
2007-03-04 01:13:57
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answered by YourSummerObsession 2
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it mean that she is very interested in u. what shes doing is trying to feel u to see if u feel the same way as her.. she will not come right out to tell you that in fear of rejection or in fear of jeopardizing your friendship with her...if your have a feeling for this person,you must take the first steep of letting her know how you really feel... good luck to you.....
2007-03-04 01:31:51
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answered by sweetooth 2
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Girls like to talk. They really like to talk about guys. However, they find it hard to talk about guys in front of guys they "like like". It sounds to me that she truly sees you as a friend that she can confide in. I say similar things to my guy friends, but wouldn't dare have a crush here me say. Just keep at the same pace you're going. If she gets a little creepy, tell her nicely. If she stands outside your window, call the police.
2007-03-04 01:17:15
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answered by Kurohana 2
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Well my answer for you is tell her how you feel about her and she'll porably think your right and instead of becoming a friend and she can turn into your girlfriend again. Does that help?
2007-03-04 01:14:35
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answered by kiana a 1
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she most kiss you.
2007-03-04 01:13:34
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answered by Anonymous
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In my opinion, maybe she likes you... Maybe she's only trying to impress you, tell you that so many guys like her, hoping to get you interested too.
2007-03-04 01:18:38
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answered by Saki 2
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maybe she wants to be more than jus ur close best friend
2007-03-04 01:14:23
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answered by physco_porsche 2
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she is intimidated by you. she sees you as being superior to her, so she must impress you.
2007-03-04 01:12:07
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answered by Anonymous
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