about to end my..?

Question

I am about to end my life.. i have planned this for years now i try many ways to get me out of a bad situation I am at.. but i have been left with one choice which is to end it all for good and make it easier for evryone.. but I have one friend that care about me not really sure if he does because he always have tells me lies and likes to be known as a player not even sure if he a bf or just friend but I feel I may end up hurting him when he finds out what I did

what is the best way to tell him that it has nothing to do with him..
I been just abused a lot mentally and physically be those very close to me

Answer 1

Don't go through that route honey. I completely understand where you are coming from. I've been in your shoes except I was never abused physically but mentally is just as bad and sometimes even worst. If I can count of how many times I wanted to end my life I would be rich by now but I never get around to it. You know why because everytime I think about it, it hurts me and everytime I was thinking of doing it somehow something good ends up happening. Coincidence... maybe. But the point is life is a struggle, pain and misery. On the flip side, life has a lot to offer. What your dealing with now is only temporary, it will pass. I can promise you that.

I would suggest that you get some counseling because this is serious. Keep your head up, it will all be better, I dont know you but you can trust in me when I tell you that.

Answer 2

ending your life is not the answer to all this. I am no a God or pshychologist but I know one thing, every person has his/her ability to turn things around from bad to good. You just have to find the way and stick with it, be tough, dont give up. Please don't end your life that is the worst thing ever. I dont know how bad is your situation but trust me there are millions out there suffering and in the same situation with you or even worse but they survive, why can't you? about this guy, tell him the truth not about what is going on in ur real life (if u are not comfortable to tell him) but just be honest with him. There is no specific way to tell him that he is not the cause. But please call 911 or any community services to ask for help. Dont let your mind take you to a negative way. You must fight back~!

Answer 3

Fight back! Don't give in to being a victim. If you have survived physical & mental abuse you are stronger than you realise. Seek out professional help. There are a lot of free services available you just need the determination to stand up & turn your life around. If you've made the decison to end your life, end it in a symbolic way.

Answer 4

I dont know what youve experienced but a lot of people have been through bad times, including myself. My girlfriends been through some very very tough times..life is suddenly panning out for her now, things are getting good for her more than she could ever have imagined. But not before the years and years of pain, and hurt shes had to suffer. Life is precious you only get one shot at it, and you should always try to survive even when times are hard, and you will see brighter days. My girlfriend is a very strong person, stronger than me and has had people who have commited suicide in her life so she knows wht pain you could be causing to the people in your life, so if you like you can talk to her, I'm sure she wont mind talking to you. Just email me on [e-mail] and then I will give you her email.

Answer 5

Knock it off! You want to punish the people who hurt you by ending your OWN life? What does that prove? They got the best of you? How about getting tough here a lil girlie? You want the easy way out eh? Stand up for yourself and get stronger and get yourself some help that you need! Become strong and happy..that will show them!
Good luck on your journey..it will not be easy but your worth it. Ya think? :)

Answer 6

You must not even consider this, it won't solve anything. How do you think your friend would feel if you did this? You may be in a lot of pain, but people that consider what you are, never think of the people that they leave behind. You must immediately go get yourself some help. Tell your friend, I'm sure he would be more than willing to get you where you need to go. Everything can be worked out with the correct help, PLEASE!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

everyone has ups and downs even if it is for a period of time.

like for me, i had this stretch of depression days and i feel like i should just end my life here.

but everyone is meant for something. and it might not be just now to find out. keep on going on. see where it can take you next and it won't be like this forever. everybody has these days but are pretty good in hiding it so it might not seem that way.

find an escape.something that makes you happy.

i found mine.

do not leave.

Answer 8

first of all , you need to know that this is not a good thing to do,
if you are going thought something then talk to someone that
you trust. a counseor. etc. but if you know that this person
is a friend, then why would you do this to him regardless of
what going on he a friend and right now that what you need.
dont give up. life is precious gift. it might feel that you dont]
feel that life is important.but it is. there might be darkness
right now.but trust me there is a wonderful light also there
for you. you just need to look to god for your strength and
see that there a rainbow with you in mind. hang in there
be strong. and know that god love you. i will pray for you
peace be with you. DONT GIVE UP HOPE.

Answer 9

Dont end your life. Just start again. Move or something, and change the situation. THAT is a solution. Suicide isnt a good solution. You wont be able to live your lifr to its maximum fullest. Plus you wil be causing pain for those around you.

Answer 10

do not end your life. get out of your situation. you are worth more than what others making you feel like. do not end your life. there are so many resources, community and otherwise. Do not do that.