its been a month since i broke up with my boyfriend ,im only 15 so i feel really stupid for still thinking about him constantly. ive taken up 3 new sports and make sure i go out every weekend with friends, but i still cant get him out of my head! he txted me a few days ago asking how i was and has not gone out with anyone else yet, do u think he is still getting over me and am i taking too long to get over him?
2007-03-03 16:29:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry honey. i'm 18 and i'm going through the same damn thing with my ex...i lost my virginity to him and we went out on and off for about a year and i was SO incredibly in love with him it was the strongest most real thing i have ever felt in my life. i could have sworn we would be together forever, it just seemed so...right. well we broke up about 7 months ago and every other girl he's been with he's kept in contact with me somehow...texted me because he got a new number, etc... and it's like a back and forth thing like ill miss him and then he'll miss me...and we tried to get back together but it just wasn't the same, you know? and that's what really pisses me off is that being with him doesnt make me feel any better...it's like i want the old james back, not the asshole he is now. but i can't ever get him back...so i have to get over it. anyway, if you guys are meant to be let it happen. if you still feel for him then go for it. but i think it's great you are keeping active and trying to get over it... i was a total mess for months and still to this day i pull out his old letters and read them and bawl my eyes out!!! good luck sweety...love is a bittersweet thing.
2007-03-04 15:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Carmondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he may still like you or he cares enough to ask you how you are doing... But um I dont know. It all depends on how long you guys have been together. Is this your first boyfriend? That could also be the reason why it's taking so long to get over him... I completely understand where you are coming from. It took me about 2 years to get over someone. So a month isn't that long lol. Hope this helps.
2007-03-03 16:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month is not enough to forget someone you once cared about. However, depends on how long did you have a relationship with him too. You've been doing the right thing but this is based on my experience. The harder you try to forget him, the harder he gets out from your mind. Just let it flow, let the time heals everything. Don't try to go against it. If that day suddenly you thought bout him just let it happen. I am sure he is still trying to get over you. Dont worry, time will help you both get over the pain.
2007-03-03 16:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month isn`t that long. it took my friend about a year to get over her boyfriend. he`s probably checking up on you to remind you that you two can still talk and be friends. but dont worry, if things weren`t meant to be, you`ll move on eventually. it hurts, change can be for the best. i`m still struggling to get over my ex, and it`s been more than a year. luckily, i`m starting to get interested in new guys & realizing how much i`ve been missing out.
2007-03-03 16:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by asdfghjkl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 15 and you have your whole life in front of you...He may still be interested in you..You need to realize and remember why you broke it off with him in the first place..
Just go out with friends,,laugh,,go out to the movies,,fishing,,bowling or whatever yall like to do...When you keep your mind on other things then the memory of him will diminish...Who knows,,if it is meant to be then sooner or later yall will hook up again..Just slow down and enjoy life..How I wish i could be 15 again lol lol...Have fun ,,love life..God bless
2007-03-03 16:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything seems like a huge deal when your a teenager, it's funny that way. Don't feel stupid because of it, most people feel like that after a break up. just try to enjoy yourself when your out, it's good that your makeing an effort to enjoy yourself. in a few months you'll forget all about him and in a few years you'll probably barely remember him.
2007-03-03 16:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm haha thats not that long at all. I mean..if you really liked him you have every right to miss him and all the times you shared.
He might be getting over you but..if he keeps wanting to talk it means he at leaste still wants to be friends so..take it at that. Its a good offer; better than enemies.
2007-03-03 16:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of us's definition of "long" is diverse, yet conversing from own adventure; I decrease my hair some inches above my shoulders approximately 2 a million/2 years in the past, and touching it as not often as available, its longest layer is now in my mid-chest variety.
2016-10-17 05:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to keep thinking about the person you really care about..but im glad that your trying your best to get over him... although its hard for you to get over him, only time and some optimism will help you thru this tough time... good luck:)
2007-03-03 16:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by mystic world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...love sometimes might be quite confusing
but sometimes we must learn to let it go^^
but he's seems like still hvnt get over u...
but i dont know that too...
he's your 1st love??
maybe he is...it's harder to forget 1st love
2007-03-03 16:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋