Would you ever break up with your fiance because you loved him so much and were afraid that things in the future might not work out between you? I'm not talking about cheating on him but you were just so afraid that things wouldn't work out that you would rather hurt him now by breaking up with him rather than hurting him even worse in the future
2007-03-03 16:26:41 · 12 answers · asked by Sad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't. Obviously you accepted the engagment for a reason and if you didnt think things would work out in the long run, why get his hopes up for you to be his future wife?
2007-03-03 16:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question just shows that you are not sure if you really love him and you will be faithful to him all throughout your relationship, that’s a hint. With you doubting yourself if you could love him forever this relationship will definitely end sooner or later, because if you really love him, all you can see is that no matter what happen you two can work things out, all you can see is your bright future with him, “happy thoughts” and these problems that you are mentioning could never enter your mind.
2007-03-04 00:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that now. I feel that if we cant work out now, i'm not spending the money on a big wedding and havin kids, and then not even last long after that. I would just end it. Im acually going to consider that if my boyfriend wants to be an insecure asshole, make me give up what i like to do just cuz he's scared im going to meet some other guy in the moment, get interested and leave off with him. I HATE these damn insecure guys. if i do end our relationship boy in staying single. I feel like im married already and I aint.
2007-03-04 00:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by MedTq367 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,because i wouldn't run away from the future. Also if I found the right person, then why would i break up with him. You have to trust eachother and believe that everything will be ok
2007-03-04 00:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you say yes in the first place. If you have misgivings you should back off right now. A commitment to someone is so important why would things fall later you have issues you need to fix to forward you may try premarital counseling with your fiance or go into counseling yourself and find out why you have these issues
be nice to yourself and look into yourself to why you have misgivings
2007-03-04 00:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were to have doubts in a relationship, the last thing I would do is make a decision to be with that person for a lifetime... doesn't make any sense.
2007-03-04 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just describing cold feet. Maybe your nervous about getting married to someone. If your the type to be so worried about the person your going to marry that you wouldn't marry them wo that their life would be better I don't think you have to worry about how you treat that person.
2007-03-04 00:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, give it a chance before you throw away what could turn out to be a good thing.
2007-03-04 00:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a girl im a guy but if it was the other way around i probably would not
Yes i know im a guy, big deal, want to fight about it?
2007-03-04 00:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely no I can't predict the future and it's for better or worse my goal would simply be to do everything in my power to please my husband.
2007-03-04 00:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by 2much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋