okay, don't say that im too young to be dating. Ive ben going out with my bf for about 7 months and we have broken up alot. my friend says that he treats me badly and that he doesnt deserve me. we dont really trust eachotehr any more but we like serously LOVE eachother and im really not talking about like, well i used to love him not i dontlike him as much but i still like him and im afraid of hurting him. weve broken up like 14 times but we havent broken up in like a month after a long break up. also i have little crushes on other guys and i feel bad when i talk to them or flirt with them. tell me if you need to know anything else. i really dont know what to do and most of my friends havelike never had bfs so they cant help me bc they're all like "ooohhhhh"
2007-03-03 16:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not actually abusive but when hes mad he hangs up on my on the phone and our conversations go like this most of the time
me-Hi
him-hi (then he says something random that is different every time)
me- cool (or a good response ot what he is saying like im interested)
him-I cant tell you dont carei usedto tell him that i do care but now im gettin tired of him doing it and i think that hes just trying to get me to feel bad for him
2007-03-03 16:40:59 · update #1
You are in what i would call a comfort zone....try and mix it up....You are with him because you dont want to be alone. Alot of women do this....trust me its okay to be on your own....:)
2007-03-03 16:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are confused about what you want, which is okay, , its not neccesarily a bad thing. Maybe you need to date other people so you can figure out what makes you happy or better yet, find out what you want in a relationship and search for someone who meets your expectations
2007-03-04 00:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break again..and wait for him to try to get back together with you...by then you will have found another guy...you guys are better off not going out anymore...14 times is a lot
2007-03-04 00:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LETS address the abuse issue. IF he is abusive kick him to the curb. MOVE on.THEN you said you didnt trust him. NOT good 4 a relationship. MOVE on dear.
2007-03-04 00:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young to be dating, and it shows not because of your age but because of your question
2007-03-04 00:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by tonyalmeida 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋