i really want to know why.. cuz i dont know.. every girl that talks to my boyfriend i hate.. it really bugs me alot.. cuz i dont know wut he does when im not around.. i want to know how i can trust him too..
2007-03-03 16:18:51 · 20 answers · asked by ♫♪Expecting #1!! ♫♪ :} ♥june 15, 2011♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealous
2007-03-03 16:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you're not the only fighter there. Every girl must have experienced the same feeling that you are having but depends to what degree. Trust in a relationship is so important. I've been in the same boat with you and none of my relationship worked out because eventually the guy I dated felt that I am too jealousy or insecure. Remember, guys like girls who is rich in personality and secure not only bout the relationship but also her self. There must have been something going on in the past that makes you like this. Try to think calmly and use your ratio more than your feelings because that helps. No one in this world knows what his/her spouse doing when he/she not around. No matter how much you hate those girls talking to your bf, if he wanted to cheat on you, he is still able too. That's why I am telling you, if you kept acting like this, your not only wasting your time but also pushing your partner further away from you. It's hard but you need to change the way you think here.
2007-03-03 16:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get what you're saying but obviously the person who was dating your ex wouldn't feel comfortable with it because you dated before, maybe shes a little insecure and thinks that you might end up together if you spend to much time together. Not everyone is like that at all but some people are and you just have to move on from the situation. Of course, you can talk to who ever you like but its also nice to have consideration for others and how they feel. I'm not sure of her reasons but to me it just sounds as if she could be a little insecure and jealous.
2016-03-28 22:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are jealous and insecure, you can't trust the person you are with and probably shouldn't be dating him. It sounds like you're a teenager and need to grow up a bit more before getting into a relationship. You are so not ready.
2007-03-03 16:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see this is easy you are jelous of all girls he's around or either u fear them taking him away from you. You do need to trust him tho b/c if u don't have trust in a relationship what do u have? You'll never know for sure what he does when ur not around, but chances are u never will and that all boils down to trust once again. Good luck
2007-03-03 16:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is because you are jealous. This might be just you, but it might be because he's given you a reason not to trust him, by cheating, obviously flirting with other girls, etc. Otherwise it's just 'cause you're jealous! Try to get over it, it's a real downer in a relationship.
2007-03-03 16:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i feel the same way about that 2 cuz one time i caught my boyfriend walking down the stairs in school a ***** came out of nowhere and started 2 kick him on the leg and i go so mad i almost went off right there but my homegirl pushed me away.
2007-03-03 16:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whats his rep.
Is he a player or a lover.
Any relationship wont work if there is trust issues.
Its pretty normal to be a little jelous but dont hate people.....
No one like's to be caged or have boundaries on who they can associate with, that isn't right.
I would lay off a little bit....
2007-03-03 16:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you hate the girls is your afraid one of them will take your man away..If you trusted him, then you wouldnt have this fear..It may stem from you being cheated on in your life...If that is the case then you have to really get to know your man..If he is upfront and honest with you then you have no fear..Dont hate the girls for you never know what he is tellin them..Just take it slow,,and talk to him...Take time to really listen to his heart and pay attention to the way he treats you...By studying him you will find your answer...God bless
2007-03-03 16:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is because you are jealous or you feel kind of insecured in the relationship.. such feelings do come up at one point of time or another but the best way to get over it is to start trusting him, to believe him and to know that he is not doing anything wrong when you are not around.. in any relationship, communication is important to ensure that you will not feel insecured in any way..
2007-03-03 16:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by mystic world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋