He broke up with me bcuz his child's mother is moving to the city we both live in. She has no where to live so he is letting her stay with him until she gets paid from her new job and gets an apartment. He says that the only reason he is doing it is for the sake of his child. He also says that he doesn't want to be with her and that he wants me but he just can't disrespect me by having her in his house and dating me. On the other hand, he wants me to wait for 2 months so that she can get her own place and we can get back 2gether. I'm scared to wait because I don't know if he may pick up feelings for her while she's there or if it will be more than 2 months. He is a very good man and I don't want to lose him, but at the same time, I don't want to be stupid either. Also, everything was great until she got to the city. He's a very good father and we have nearly everything in common. I trusted him and I did everything I could to please him. Please help
2007-03-03 16:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by Green C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is: the prayer, you need to pray for him, pray for his child and his child's mother! It sounds strange for us because we forgot to be real human beings; we have to help each other, especially our enemies, our loved ones... may God help us all understand why we are here!
2007-03-03 16:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by MV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know getting over someone you care about can be hard but know that there are other guys out there. You need to dump this guy because chances are he's going to fall in love with the baby's mom again and than your not going to be in the picture. Go on lots of dates and meet new people. Get back into the dating life. Once you do that you will feel much better.
2007-03-03 16:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think about the child, forget him and her. Who is the most imperative person in this situaton, who is going to be effected the most? is the Child. 90% of the child's brain developes the first 6-7 years of life. It is imperative for this kids to have both of his parents. Get your strenght from God, pray.
Allow this and if you still feel not good about this situation then move on. You have all the reasons to feel the way you do. Keep your head Up!
2007-03-03 16:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shiryiana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby move on, no matter how good of a father he is there's no reason for her to stay there. It's only obvious that he still has feelings for her no matter what he tells you. Most of the people that I know that get to be alone with their ex's regarding a child they have and are still sleeping together. Be smart you will find someone that really values you. Good luck.
2007-03-03 16:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm odd? I don't understand why he would have to break up with you, to me, this woman has nothing to do with the relationship, if you ask me, he knew what would happen with the two living together, so he only broke up with you so it wouldn't be called CHEATING! Did he even ask you if you'd consider that disrespect? I understand that you care for him, but the best you could do as of now is just keep intouch with him and don't allow him to forget why he got with you in the first place. But don't go out of your way honey, no mans worth that.
2007-03-03 16:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all just because she coming in town does not mean that
he had to break up with you. she know that he with someone
else so that a lot of bull. and that the fact that he want you to
wait for her to get a place. why should you do that, you right
he might start back with her or etc. i would just let it go
and if you get back together that good but dont just set around
and waiting on him. you might have a long wait.
2007-03-03 16:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by sutkus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think about every thing negative about him.. all the stuff that he did that you could not stand.. it helped me for a little bit.
2007-03-03 16:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of him.....its cool that he's helping his exg/f out but still....there's nothing wrong with you and him dating. it sounds like you don't trust him so get red of him!
2007-03-03 16:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it
2007-03-03 16:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋