I really want to sleep with my new bf......but got a feeling i need to make him wait a lil longer?? what r u guys opinions??? Please help..i appreciate it!!
2007-03-03 16:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a tough one Honey.
I just faced it myself this week.
Most of my friends said WAIT.
Some said go for it..
I went with my gut.
Good luck!!
2007-03-03 16:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and my age is about 30.5 now.........still virgin and never had any close affair....now i m going to marry soon my wife is 27 same as me ...and i can bet one thing a marital love and sharing your body with your real spouse has a taste that no other relation can give u.....if some one loves u not ur body he will wait untill u both are ready for the marriage.......people who love truly are ready to accept every thing and willing to pay every cost and to make every sacrifice y not to wait then may b u will love and trust him more after marriage cuz he has proved that he is not among other guys and u r not among other girls u both loved truly and u both waited for this love to succeed and this is the success when u will b in his arms as a bride a taste nothing else could give u.......would u wait now??:)
2007-03-04 00:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
assalam o alikum
i really unable to understand that how a person without a legal relation shares his/ her body with other. its really a shamful act + its sin as well. dont u think its insecure, that is the reason the west ppl arent happy, content and always dissatisfied. and a lot of dieseases has been generated because of this EVIL practice. not only physical but psychological as well.
if u really like someone, i advised to get married. this is decent way.
may Allah (God) guide us towards the right path, ameen
2007-03-04 00:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Muslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that if you sleep with a guy before you have been dating for four months they think you are easy and will continue to only use you for sex. You don't have to wait for four months but wait awhile to make sure you really care about him and that the relationship is something without sex.
2007-03-04 00:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should listen to what your heart says. If the guy really loves u then he will understand you and the most important thing which i believe is that in a relationship mutual understanding is the most important !
2007-03-04 00:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by manishkumar3414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a dead line like in the 40 yr old virgin (they waited 20 dates but ended up getting married) you get it
2007-03-04 00:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by sharee-ree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till it feels right
2007-03-04 00:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Shawna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if u feel ur ready
2007-03-04 00:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋