no ring no proposal no nothing we've been together for 2 years, what should i say...
2007-03-03 16:08:05 · 13 answers · asked by delia a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First I would ask him if that was his proposal or is he just asking you to start planning? I know this seems backwards, but my then boyfriend/now fiance and I started planning our wedding before we got engaged. We actually booked our reception hall and set our date before we got engaged! So, maybe he was just suggesting that you guys start planning so that when you do get officially engaged it will be less stressful. Maybe he just wants to know when you want to get married so he knows when he should propose or maybe that was his proposal.
But, you need to ask him what he meant before you can start choosing a date!
2007-03-04 02:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by ms. teacher ft 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-30 04:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by duktig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love and I decided to get married. It went something like this, "blah blah blah" says I, he replies "so I guess we're engaged now" and I said, "yep, guess so." No ring, no silly proposal. I'm happy with just that. Then he told his parents and I told mind. We set a date and have a wedding being planned.
Maybe he doesn't think your the kind of woman that needs the romantic cliches and shiny trinkets? Do you typically need those things from him? Personally, I find that stuff annoying and like the way we got engaged. If you want the silly dance of a proposal, tell him to suprise you with one.
2007-03-03 16:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
He DID ask you to marry him... He asked you to set a date for the wedding. If THIS isn't "asking" - I don't know what is! If you want a ring - ask him to go shopping with you for a ring; don't be shy. And start planning that wedding! Congrats.
2007-03-03 19:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have 2 words for you CONTROL FREAK!.
He wants you to be involved in something so special but doesnt even included your feelings?
If he is like this now what will he be like in 10 years?
A marraige is a pertnership not a business arrangement, 50/50 straight down the line.
Take a stand now or be a second class citizen the rest of your life.
If he cant respect you and your feelings or values NOW he NEVER will.
2007-03-03 16:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him you won't set a date for an event that's not yet happening. Tell him IF he asks you properly; IF he presents a ring; IF you decide to say "yes", then you'll be happy to set a date.
2007-03-03 16:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He thinks this was the proposal. He's being lazy, inconsiderate & most of all, disrespectful. He thinks this is 'good enough'. He thinks it's silly.
Tell him politely that when you get a proper proposal, you'll plan a wedding. Until then......no dice.
2007-03-03 16:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
is he forgetful? he could have thought he already asked you. hmm... you should sort of turn things around and propose to him, if your ready to get married that is, if not then you should talk to him, make sure he was serious, and ask him why he didn't propose, there has to be some back story of why he didn't ask. I'm not sure though, that sounds kinda strange, and tricky.
2007-03-03 16:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
So plan the date WITH him. It is his wedding too.
2007-03-04 01:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say ill set the date when you ask me to marry you!
2007-03-03 16:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋