To make things short, me and her had been on three dates. The last date, she invited me over her house. Everything seemed really well between us, although I was getting mixed signals from her. So I figured I would discuss where our “friendship” was headed. She told me that her Boyfriend in 2004 died in a car crash and ever since then, she hasnt been able to move on. She pretty much said she liked me, but wasn’t ready. She talked about how people always give up on her. Next day in class, everything seems perfect, even when I thought things were going to be awkward. But everything changed later that night when I saw her.
2007-03-03 16:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She seemed distant and upset… at me. I let her cool down for the weekend, but the next week in class, same mood from her. She was kind of rude as well. So I figured I’d call her to ask her and before I could ask she said, “Look, im busy right now and I dont have time. I appreciaite your concern, but im just busy, ok?” So I obviously got upset and asked her why she was acting that way. She said to leave her alone. I said I would give her her space. She than said, “I met someone special too and I don’t know what to do or how to handle it. I need some time and I need you to understand.” It’s been about a week and I’ve seen her in class twice, but she still hasn’t talked to me. What’s going on with her and what should I do?
2007-03-03 16:07:38 · update #1
Tell her she needs to decide
2007-03-03 16:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't only have eyes for this girl because it seems to me she isn't treating you well at all. She may not realize how much she is doing this, so somehow try and communicate to her that you really like her, but you don't think its fair for her to avoid you whenever she feels distant. I would dedicate more of your time looking for a girl who will be secure and be there for you, rather than insist your attention but not be willing to appreciate it. I wish you the best of luck and I'm sorry that she lost her boyfriend but she shouldn't take it out on you.
2007-03-03 16:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd just let her go... it seems like before she was interested and now she's finding excuses to be away from you... if she's now trying her hardest to keep distance from you then...the truth is she isn't that into you... she shouldn't be giving off mixed signals and playing with people's emotions. Find someone new who isn't attached to their boyfriend from 3 years ago.
2007-03-03 16:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a hard one. I would try one last time in a week or so and if she still pushes you away I would call it a lost cause. Im really sry to hear that
2007-03-03 16:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lyndsay P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is you've expressed your feelings, if she wants to be in a relationship with you, she will do something. if it takes too long for her to say anything you should probably try one more time.
2007-03-03 16:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by monotonous_life7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋