Okay, I like these two girls. One of them I've liked longer than the other one. She is a totally brat, is really greedy and only cares about herself. The other one I stared liking this year and she's really shy around me, but is really really nice. I've liked the bratty one longer so it's really hard for me to let go of her.
I don't know which one to choose, Can you please tell me which one to choose and how to let go of the other one if you can help me.
Thanks!!
2007-03-03 15:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were you i would choose the shy one b/c well shes not a brat,and she probably likes u were shes so shy around you!!!!! im shy around the boyz i like unless their my friends!!!
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2007-03-03 15:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by -♥- onalou -♥- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shy one will eventually open up to you, the bratty one doesn't seem like she should even be in a relationship. A relationship is about caring for the other person, if she doesn't care about you, why should you care about her? It would be a waste of time and you might end up hurt.
If you want to take that risk, go for it, but look at how you described the first girl, what is it you like about her?
2007-03-03 23:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what u have said here i would say try and get to know the one who is shy. I understand u have known the other girl longer, and you guys have a past but you said it yourself...she is a greddy brat. why do you need someone like that? i dont know if you guys have actually been together but if u have and you broke up the was obviously a reason, and if you havent been together but have known one another for awhile there is obviously a reason you guys havent tried it. well i dont know if i was of any help but i hope you pick one, but choose wisely.
2007-03-03 23:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicer the only reason the brat 1 is in the picture is that makes her seem more unattainable and ure scared of what ur missing out on if u go with the nice girl but if u dont then ull be missing out on her and maybe the mean 1 too because she seems more unpredictable and she'll make ur life worse, so no matter how hard it is def go witht the nicer girl
2007-03-03 23:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by wafflehouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I would go with the shy one because in the long term she will give into you and open up more. the braty one will always care about herslef and make you buy her everything she want and you will give into it because you don't want to lose her I know it is hard for you to lose one of them but the best way to do it is come clean and just tell her up front.
2007-03-03 23:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. If the one you have been with is doing so much to make you unhappy, then be honest with her and tell her what you feel. Who knows she may not know how you feel or if she is upsetting you. If after you talk and tell her, she does not change, then adios. " Tell her you have put up with it for a long time and cannot anymore. I gave you a chance to change and did not think much of our relationship to stop, so thats it." YOu may be loosing a good thing if you wait too long to decide.
Good luck
2007-03-04 00:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had to do this pick the one that is shy b/c she probably likes you. i dont know why you liked the bratty one in the first place so i cant help you on that one
2007-03-03 23:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicer.
2007-03-03 23:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋