A co-worker of the opposite sex who does the following for you, romantic interest or friendship?
showing concern when you are sick, offer snacks and cookies, offer to accompany you when you are alone for lunch or dinner, bring you dinner when you missed a company dinner, drives you to work occassionally, invites you for dinner.
2007-03-03 15:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you—no guy's going to do all that if he doesn't unless he's gay—but he's waiting for you to show some interest too. Either he's shy or he's afraid of a sexual harassment lawsuit, or maybe some other reason, but if you like him you should let him know before someone else snatches him up. He sounds like a good guy.
2007-03-03 15:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking friendship, until the "invites you for dinner" part. It is so hard when you are interested with someone you work with because you want to be careful and not make assumptions.. whatever happens you still need to work with them and maintain a good rapport. I know because I am dealing with the same thing with a guy i sit next to at work. He flirted with me, called me, etc. I thought he was shy so I asked him out and he practially never spoke to me again.. but kept flirting, it is weird. But for you, I say we need to know more about her. Do you know for sure she is single? You need to work into conversation with her some questions that may give you an idea about her intentions.... going to lunch with a coworker is one thing but when you start doing things outside of work on evening and weekends, that seems to be moving more into the dating realm. maybe you can find a way to slip into conversation a way of asking her out.. like if she mentions what movies are out, ask her if she wants to go w/you, ask her very casually, or even email her if you are too shy.. see what happens. good luck to you! PS> sorry i kept saying "she' i meant 'he', isabella!
2007-03-03 23:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's defintly friendship for sure but I ALSO think that he likes you.He's probally not doing anything romantic because he's scared to take the next step in the relationship.If you have romantic feelings for him too I suggest you offer him to dinner too, to show that you have feelings to him too(if you do).I think it sounds like a romantic intrest, congratilations and good luck!
2007-03-03 23:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy_of_4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two have been friends for some time id say just a person being a great friend but if you 2 are just acquaintances then probably romantic interest.
2007-03-03 23:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineShortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is why he doesn't try to bone you in the stationery cupboard. Only two possible answers. Either he is gay or you have a face like the backend of a cow. I opt for the later.
2007-03-03 23:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he or she a little bit interested in you, but at the same time keeping the relationship on friendly terms.
2007-03-03 23:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romantic
2007-03-03 23:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say its kinda both
2007-03-03 23:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by the idiot down the road 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋