If you could,
Would you marry the person you're with right now?
The person you like,
your boyfriend or girlfriend,
or, if you're already married,
would you do it all over?
Please excuse the erratic spacing
It's my poetic nature.
All answers are great
Thanks in advance.
2007-03-03 14:57:21 · 22 answers · asked by marajader2d2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your answer is base strictly on love, yes I would!
2007-03-03 15:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm married,
but i think, in my deepest heart, that he is my compromise. both, my second chance and my second chioce.
i love him, but i'm not in love with him, and have never been.
the first one, i let go.
i didn't blow it or anything
it all just slipped away on it's own and i did nothing to stop it...
ok, maybe i helped it along.
the first one was the one that set my soul on fire. we had passion. there's a downside to passion. arguments and opinions. strong feelings make for strong resentments
i was in love.
but i knew nothing about real love.
"in love" is the fire that burns twice as bright...
it only burns half as long
real love is the slow steady flame that keeps you warm and never lets you feel the cold and dark
it's calm and comfortable
but sometimes, it's really boring
there is no passion, only the normal
there is no fire, only warmth
would i do it over?
no,
no way,
not in a million,
not for all the money in the world
i have more now than i gave up to get it
i have stability
i have trust
i have safety and security
i know him, instead of being in love with an idea
i understand him, instead of living with an enigma
it has it's advantages, and it's drawbacks.
but, if i had it all to do again
i'd marry my second chance
2007-03-03 23:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by ladrhiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I could formally and legally commit to anyone since the divorce rate is so high, and often gets ugly. I wouldn't mind being engaged (without the whole wedding thing) to the man I'm with right now.
2007-03-03 23:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am alone. A recent change but a decision I made nonetheless. I believe for the first time I need to focus on me and my life. Sorry this sounds boring and somewhat cliche, but I am convinced I am somewhat broken. Humans break sometimes. I need to heal for a while.
2007-03-03 23:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Surrendered 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would remarry my wife. We are very happy and have a great relationship. It's awesome to be married to your best friend, be able to talk about anything & everything& enjoy spending time together.
2007-03-03 23:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have anybody special right now. But i guess if i were to choose i would want to marry the person i love and of course who loves me in return. The prson who would unconditionally accept me for what i am despite of all my shortcomings and everything...
2007-03-03 23:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by tachabei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would remarry him.We have been together for 35 years as of FEB 14
2007-03-03 23:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 10 years, and I would do it all over again.
2007-03-03 23:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by pawt72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...Marriage is pretty freaky, i can't think of marriage without freaking out. But I have to be honest, I couldn't picture myself right now or in any distant future without my honey. If I had to marry him now, i would.
A.L.
2007-03-03 23:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry him, don't know him well enough plus i'm only 15, i would marry a guy i know though, i love him to death, don't know what i would do without him....he has a gf though.
2007-03-03 23:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u was going out with the love of my life i would marry him
2007-03-03 23:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by I luv Lindsey kaemmerer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋