My brother really needs to know. He is very nervous around this girl he likes and he doesn't think she likes him. He really likes her and he gets depressed. Please just give me some advice on how he can be less nervous around her and how he can tell her he likes her more than just a friend.
2007-03-03 14:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by IloveJesus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I am his sister, and I try to tell him how girls normally feel when guys arte nervous. I love my brother, he is my best friend, and he has never liked another girl. I just told him to pray to God and ask God to help. Hopefully he will listen! Thank all of you!
2007-03-03 14:51:14 · update #1
It's very nice of you to care about your brother like this. How confident (or nervous) a person is depends on the person's only perception of his world. This is an attitude that can be changed, but it must be him that changes it. As for telling if a girl likes your brother, it depends on her behavior around him. If she is very comfortable and calm around him, she probably does not like him. If she seems a little off balance and self conscious, she does like him.
2007-03-03 14:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to be nervous. girls get nervous when the guy is nervous. we would want the guy to make us feel comfortable, like always talking to us and not making both parties feeling awkward. try disturbing her, like playing with her hair, doing some sort of childish acts, or whatever it is, the girl likes it, as in, after doing this we will feel more comfortable with you. if she still doesnt like him, they can still be friends. who knows one day.. she may just unknowingly fall in love with your brother?
2007-03-03 22:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he so shy... the someone else can ask him (like you bro)! Be the role model so he can learn how to be around girls. Go out on double dates or group things.
2007-03-03 22:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by bwtiger0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your brother that there are plenty more fish in the sea, if he misses the boat this time. he will never know how she feels if he doesn't talk to her.
2007-03-03 22:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should just come out and tell her. It'll be a big weight lifted off his chest and the worst she could do is say no.
2007-03-03 22:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥~Á~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like this guy, and told him so 3 weeks ago... hasnt talked since...i think i put him in shock... now I"M nervous...she should understand and be nice about it... or else she's not worth it
2007-03-03 22:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by sad h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the brother. Bite the bullet. Nothing else you can do.
2007-03-03 22:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by James W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like him, why should he tell her so, throw himself out there to be rejected?
That seems dumb.
Give him a hug.
Then tell him to take it like a man.
Or, since u love 'jesus',
make him fix it
2007-03-03 22:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl!
Believe me, he will soon forget about that one when he does!
2007-03-03 22:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2007-03-03 22:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋