in the relationship is it more importent for the guy to have a good bond or relationship with the girls mom or the dad? then whats it for the girl the mom or the dad?
2007-03-03 14:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by nick g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on if your girl has a better relationship with her mom or dad. You should respect the people who are important to her. Unless they are drunks who abandoned her at walmart when she was 5, or something along those lines, in that case it dosent matter.
2007-03-03 14:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Dad. Girls are closer to their Daddies and Dads are REALLY protective of their little girls.
A Dad's opinion of a relationship can make or break a girl's opinion about a guy. True, there are some girls who either have to look past their father's opinion or choose to look past it simply to break the rules... however in most normal cases, a girl will hold her father's opinion in high respects.
Also if you bond well with a girl's father, you'll have someone to talk to at those awkward family gatherings!
2007-03-03 22:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by RaginCajun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends. If you plan to stay with the girl for marriage then definatley. If not you can still try and bond with the girls parents...so that if you want to move on with the girl he's accept and stuff like dat.. Dont get me wrong kno u dont only have to do this for marriage if u want to go out wit the girl...and she has a strict father....its best that you try to bond with him. But on the other hand if you try and bond with he might not like you too.....so u gotta keep an eye on the look out for strict and non-strict fathers. IT doesnt really matter for the mothers they are usually the nicest ones. SO really u might wanna get closer to the mother. Get her heart then everything will go well. Well i wish u the best of luck!!!!
2007-03-03 22:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every1 should make an effort 2 get along for the sake of each others partners & loved 1s.The 1 thing they all hav in common is that they care about the couples happiness.If you dont get along with sum1 who matters 2 ur partrner try not 2 fall out with them,be civil & avoid them if u hav 2.Lifes a lot simpler if you can get along in families if u like each other or not.Lifes 2 short & not getting along with a partners family doesnt make any1 happy.
2007-03-03 22:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Poppypunto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences, its best to have a good relationship with both parents. It allows them to see what kind of respectful person you are and you get the chance to know the personalities of the mom and pop who have influenced the girl's upbringing. It would be the same for the girl.
2007-03-03 22:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriend needs to get along well with both mom and dad especially dad...its a man thing..dads dont want to lose their daughters..but moms are anxious for daughter to find a good lad and raise a family...thats a mom thing. Girls need to have a good relationship with boyfriends mom because mom doesnt want her little boy to get hurt..be nice with boyfriends dad because hes anxious to have his boy become a man and go out and reproduce to carry the family name.
2007-03-03 22:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by evon stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly wouldn't hurt to get along well with both. But, it depends upon who the girl is closer to.... mom or dad. Which parent's opinion matters most to her? That's the one I'd bond with if you can only pick one.
2007-03-03 22:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by shanequinox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes the parents feel more secure about the guy takeing care of their daughter look and learn a dad can see when a guy is sucking up to him he knows what a guy has got on his mind believe me the parents especially the dad does not want a relationship with the guy that is going to be sticking his daughter so be careful
2007-03-03 22:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would make it easier for the gf if the guy did have a good relationship with her parents. it gets to be a pain to live with people who are bothering you about someone you don't want to leave out of your life.
2007-03-03 22:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Fire Dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOM! haha! if you're asking which relationship is good to work our, my asnwer would be moms. catch mommy's heart first cause once you win your girl's mom's heart, then it's like winning you girl's dad's heart..
why? if mommy likes you, she would be the one to tell dad's that you're a nice guy blah blah..
2007-03-03 22:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋