ok there is this guy I love and he is my bf. He is the best bf that I have ever had. I may be young but I wonder if he is the one.
I have been having visions and day dreams about us getting married, living together, and everything else that has to do with living. I can't even imagine myself with another guy, he has been my whole world, and I never want to leave him.
And what I want to know is that could he be the one or what are the things that trigger someone to knowing that they want to spend the rest of their life with them?
2007-03-03 14:37:48 · 3 answers · asked by I like cheese girl XP™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about the important issues in life and if you truly are compatible in those areas.... those are the things that will matter if you do marry and start a family one day. Is he the kind of man who will be faithful as a husband? Is he a good example for your children? Does he have a good work ethic? Do you have the same values, morals, beliefs? These things don't matter as much now, but believe me... they will mean everything one day.
If you feel he is right for now and he will grow with you for the future, then maybe he is right for you. Of course, he must feel the same way about you for it to work. You'll want a man who respects and cherishes you. Settle for nothing less. Remember, love is a committment more than it is a feeling.
2007-03-03 14:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by shanequinox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several questions that you need to ask yourself. Does he make you happy? Do you share common goals and aspirations? Does he even want to get married and what not, and about what age? These are just some of the things that you need to think of. The biggest questions is to make sure that you have absolutely NO doubts. If you two were meant to be there would be no doubts or any other complications getting in the way. Remember there is absolutely no rush in to getting married and having kids... you have plenty of time to do that.. Take care of yourself and your needs first, never regret anything. Good luck!!!
2007-03-03 22:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by dr. madison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't see yourself without him, or with anyone else. I fyou know he will support you in whatever you want to do with your life, and you know you would be willing to do the same for him, then he may be the one.
2007-03-03 22:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋