Ok so i have liked this guy for 2 years....he never once leaves my mind...we have gone out twice but only for a day or so. we dnt even no y we broke up..i rly rly rly like him! my friend think he likes me but idk cause for 2 days in skool we didnt rly talk like usual. I have asked him out many times and he always says he dsnt no...should i tell him i like him and that i'll be over him soon or should i just give up.?. help pleazze.
2007-03-03 14:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by elise(= 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in the same exact situation as you. Tell him this: okay, maybe you don't know if you want to go out with me, but can you at least tell me if you like me or not? And please, please tell me the truth, because whatever it is, I can take it." You don't know why he's doing what he's doing, there are a million reasons. You can find out for sure by just asking him. If you try to find out information from his siblings or his friends, or if you ask your friends what they think, you're still going to have to ask him in the end. All the other opinions are second opinions, not his. I know it's hard, but tell him you need to talk to him asap. The more you wait, the more time you will have wasted just sitting around and wondering if he's going to come tell you one day that he likes you. I'm sure he knows that you like him. If he says he doesn't like you, and you know that he's telling the truth, the painful process of healing will have to begin (there's no reason to like him anymore, since he doesn't like you, right?) Whatever happens, you'll get through it! I promise! :)
2007-03-03 14:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, whatever you do, don't go off of your friend's thoughts.She may be wrong. You may want to think about why you two broke up harder, maybe it was for something really small. If he says that he doesn't know if he should go out with you, then that probably means that apart of him does, but apart of him doesn't either because of some issues that he's struggling with in his life, or he's trying to not answer you so quickly because he's trying to make up his mind if going out with you is the right thing to do since you two broke up. he probably remembers what you two broke up for and probably doesn't want to go through it again.What you probably should do is break the ice with something us rather than coming out straight foward with " I like you". Just ask him simple questions like.. How was your day? How's life?Gradually come on with the questions.
2007-03-03 22:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Just Some Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesnt know after you ask him out then he doesn't like you like that. He probably realized the mistake of being with you the first time you guys dated and he doesn't want to mess up the friendship by being together. I think you should get the hint and move on or your could be jeapordizing the friendship. If it is meant to be you guys will end up together but just stay friends and stop asking him out. You will know when he likes you
2007-03-03 22:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Greg daybreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really liked you he would have asked you out by now. everytime he asked you out he doesnt seem sure. i wouldnt spend anymore time thinking about this guy. if you really want to still try it, just give him ONE more chance. and make it clear that its his last chance. tell him "listen, i really like you and i think we get along really well" and that you want to give it a chance. but tell him that you cant wait around for him forever and that this will be the LAST time you ask. then ignore him. dont pay him any mind. most likely he will miss talking to you and will come up to you. but dont pursue him anymore. by doing that two things can happen: 1) he wont talk to you anymore, in which case you'll really know hes not interested, and that hes stupid for passing up on a good thing (move on!) or 2) he'll get freaked out by the fact that you're not paying him any attention and will come running to you. fyi, guys dont like girls that are all over them all the time. they feel pressured. so give him some space.
2007-03-03 22:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try one more time. Tell him either you guys go out or you forget about him and start looking for someone else. If he says he doesn't know, tell him that's enough answer for you and that you won't be asking him anymore. Maybe he's just comfortable knowing you're not going anywhere so he doesn't have to make that decision. Stop wasting your time on somebody who won't give you a straight answer.
2007-03-03 22:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you have feelings for him and that you would like to try a relationship. let him know that your not going to push him to like you but that you do like him very much. ask him one more time and tell him you want a real answer- yes or no. and let him know that if he says no it will hurt you but that you can remain friends. and if he says no then remain his friend and wait for the right one. you cant make anyone fall in love with you, it has to be from their real feelings. good luck and i hope everything works out!!! if not, then wait for your love that will come. :) !!
2007-03-03 22:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by *Alicia* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have only been on a couple of dates you are not together therefore you can not have broken up, it sounds like he went on dates and now he is interested in other people. I would move on.
2007-03-03 22:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id ask him out one more time, then if he says no tell him ur no longe going to be his friend cuz u want the relationship to go deeper
2007-03-03 22:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Big L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask him out many times and he tells you i dont know -- read between the lines -- keep walking and dont look back and look for someone else. good luck
2007-03-03 22:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by snowman3971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-03-03 22:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋