What do I do?

Question

Im an 8th grade girl , im 14 , ok heres the problem, i really want to kiss my boyfriend but my mom says im not allowed to kiss a guy till i'm 16 and if i do that i will be in alot of trouble , should i listen to her or take the chance and kiss him?

I know not to let it go any farther than kissing , and i wont let it go beyond that

i've never been kissed

Answer 1

Kiss him when your mom's not around- and only when your at his house not your house.
she wont find out.

Answer 2

I say if you want to kiss him, kiss him. BUT make sure that you really like him first. I had my first kiss at 12 playing truth or dare with a bunch of friends. It was fun at the time but now that I look back, I didn't even really like him. When I was 14, I started with my first long term boyfriend. I kissed him as well and dated him for almost 2 yrs. Just make sure a kiss is a kiss and it doesnt lead to other things until you are ready. Make sure you really like the guy. On the other hand, youre mother is looking out for your best interest. Im sure shes not worried about you kissing but what might come after it. Be careful and know that your mom just loves you.

Answer 3

While i think your mom is looking out for you, it is your choice on what you want to do.
If you really want to kiss your boyfriend then do so, but dont go running to your mom about it if she says you will be in trouble.
From your mom's side, however, i can see that she wouldnt want you rushing into anything of that sort. This is especially so based on how many young people rush into semi-sexual situations (even just by kissing) and then it escalates into a more sexual situation. A number of teenagers wouldnt view this as a problem, but then again a number of teenagers grow up and regret sexual things happening when they were younger.

Evaluate the situation and if you have control over yourself and what your boyfriend would do- then kiss him and keep it to that.
Again- it is your choice, but your mom is still trying to protect you in her own parental way.

Answer 4

Well sweetie your 14yrs old and I know from my past that the more your mother tells you not to kiss a guy the more your going to want to do it. So in that case go ahead and kiss him but don't let it go any fourther than that. There's know harm in kissing a guy or girl as long as yall both know that kissing is all it's going to be, nothing else. Well goodluck and hope to hear that you seen fireworks when you do kiss.

Answer 5

Defy your mom girls have been doing it for 100 hundred years why are u stopping the chain go forr it and give him a go at second base if ya know what i'm saying

NOTE can 14 year olds kids be on yahoo i do not know

Answer 6

Well you should respect your mothers wish. But I know when I was your age as I am sure a lot of us can relate.I didn't follow all the rules either.
However, if you do not follow the rules and your mother finds out, which I swear at times they have eyes in the back of there heads, then be prepared to face the consequences. HMMMMM is he really worth it.?

Answer 7

You may kiss him but control yourself till you are 16.

Answer 8

Go for it but dont kiss alot of people cuz of the mono thing

Answer 9

Kissing will lead to other things. Listen to your mom... she knows more than you and you are living under her roof.

Answer 10

if u kiss ur bf how is ur mom going to know. take a chance and kiss him...