Theres this guy, who keeps saying he wants to date me, but can't take a hint I'm really not into him. I don't wanna be mean, I mean I'm flatetrs cuz I don't find I get alot of guys flirting with me. But like he'll be like "I wanna date you, you're so hot, I wanna make you mine and only mine and make sure no one gets you"
But then he's kinda nasty and keeps asking me if I wanna see his d!ck on web cam. How can I make it so he'll get the hint?
He's convinced we'd be perfect together because we both play hockey and keeps pushing to meet up and for other information. (I having given my phone number, last name, home address anything like that, i've come up with excuses each time)
Help anyone?! I don't exactly know what to do...
2007-03-03 14:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its partially online. He works where I play hockey so thats part of where he knows me
2007-03-03 14:10:20 · update #1
if this is some random guy online then just block him and stop talking to him or something. if he is at your school or something then just tell him straight up that you arent interested or act like you already have a boyfriend.
2007-03-03 14:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, do not walk, RUN to the nearest exit. Get as far away from this guy as you can. He has no respect for you our your boundries and is being very blatant about it. The longer you entertain him by trying not to be mean the more he will get confident that he can get away with this behavior, that you will not stop him and the further he will push the envelope. At the very least he gets his jollies making you uncomfortable, at the worst he could be seriously dangerous. Do not communicate with him any more. You need to also let a friend know just to be safe in the event he has managed to track down any of your information. It is always best to be safe in these situations.
2007-03-03 22:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Starshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have actually been there hun...so this is what I would do if I were you DO NOT under any circumstances give him your info if you don't know him off online he could be a creep or not what he says he is....to me it sounds like he really does like you no duh right but I would just politely tell him that you don't see him as no more than a friend if that and let him know that you don't think talking is such a good idea anymore because you don't want to hurt him more...cuz trust me although you think there is no harm in still talking after you let him down gently his obsession will only persist...so pretty much just politely cut the ties
Good Luck :)
2007-03-03 22:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ashton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sounds like this is an internet thing, which makes it easy. There are always options to block someone, or some way to make it so they cannot contact you anymore. Or you could just be blunt with him and tell him, listen, you're acting like a complete creep, I thought you were cool but now you're just being too over bearing.
2007-03-03 22:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by leelee53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On line has little real meaning. Just stop talking with him, and move on. If that's the stuff that's talked about, then are you really meant to be? Life is more fun and exciting than just the sex talk. Live your life to the fullest and do good things.
2007-03-03 22:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little like you are leading him on.. You need to be clear, no questions in his mind then, just be honest with him and tell him "no, I will never date you, ever" This isn't mean, it is being honest and he will respect you more in the long run.
2007-03-03 22:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all contact from him. Its really the only way to get him to stop bothering you. and if youre going to kid yourself with the "but i dont wanna be mean" thing, you obviously like the attention too much to actually do something about stopping the harassment.
2007-03-03 22:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to tell him that you have a bf.(even if you don't). say your in a long distance relationship or something. that should do it. hate such guys but may be you reacted or smiled and he took it the wrong way and now is just chasing you. delete him from ur Internet and tell him your Internet is not working.(so there is no question of him showing you all that boring stuff of his).
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2007-03-03 22:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't born with the "hint" gene. My ex says thats one reason we're divorced. You just have to say it, loud and clear.
2007-03-03 22:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be harsh, he just wants sex from you. Like me I am deeply in love, I would not even want to have sex with her even if she offered because I love her too much and respect her too much to want to have sex with her.I will only have sex with her if I marry her. True love has nothing to do with sex. Just dump that piece of shi*. Just tell him you don't like him and call him to leave you alone and tell him you don't have any feelings for him. He just wants to use you for his sexual desires and nothing more.
2007-03-03 22:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋