i have just broken up with my boyfriend because he was treating me really badly.But none of my friends have seen how he behaves,and they only ever see the charming,nice side of him.And he plays the victim,he really upset about it all,and all our friends feel really sorry for him.Some of my mates are crowding round him,because he makes them feel genuinely sorry,and it's making me feel terrible,as if they think its my fault.what can i do?
2007-03-03 13:58:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same thing happened to me when I left my first husband. Stick to your guns. You know the truth. If any of them doubts you, suggest she date him for a while so she can find out for herself.
2007-03-03 14:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would say explain to your friends about the other side of this guy and tell them that he has a trully nice side but thats not the side you broke up with..if they don't understand and at least still stand by your decision those are not true friends....and BY NO MEANS is it your fault guys are sometimes scum and to me it sounds like you made the right decision here
2007-03-03 22:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ashton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your feelings. Regardless of how others see him, it wasn't working for you. Don't question your feelings, just feel them. If you friends are pressuring you back into the relationship, question their friendship. Maybe you just need to be alone for awhile. There is strength in solitude.
2007-03-03 22:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..ur x-b/f is telling tehm just the bad parts about u and not teh goods..the bad parts r probaly made up anyway..but if they say anything to u about it (bad) than just tell tehm the truth..
2007-03-03 22:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥RachelRocks123♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a DI CK
2007-03-03 22:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by baseballmetsyankees 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him...
Try to meet new people and the pain will fade....
Wish you the BEST !!
2007-03-03 22:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Look-At-ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋