fyi we are all 16 ....so my friend tegan has this boyfriend luke and they have been going out for 2 years and last friday we all got rele drunk at a party at my house and they had sex in my basement guest bedroom ... shes my best friend and has been for 9 years and i am having problems even looking at her the same lately cause i no she knows it was a mistake but luke is just taking advantage of her and has for the 6 months year... what the hell am i supposto say ... shes my best freind comming to me looking for advise from me ....PLEASE HELP
2007-03-03 13:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drinking and having sex at 16 and being taken advantage of. Why are you young people having such emotional and destructive lives? Be a friend and don't drink and have booze parties. Bad things could of happened to you or your friends . The advise I would give a friend is don't mess up your life over this guy. Think more about what she wants in her future and career. Make a plan of the two of yous going to college or trade school. Because in two years you will be old enough to graduate, go to college or trade school , working. Getting married and having babies at 18 could be like being sentenced to jail for the rest of your life. You both should think about school more and careers.
2007-03-03 14:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you should all be getting really drunk at a party if youre 16. Its possible to have fun without alcohol, i hope for your sake. But you need to be there for her and not judge her. I know its difficult to do but if you are a real friend youll be able to do it. When my best friend found out something along those lines that i did with my boyfriend, she didnt talk to me for months and im still trying to forgive her for abandoning me at a time i needed her the most. maybe its shocking or disturbing and conflicts with your own moral values, but help her through it because as you said, she knows it was a mistake too. Comfort her, be there for her, and be a best friend no matter what. its the best advice you can give.
2007-03-03 22:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend. Don't desert her. She will stop this type of behavior when she wisens up on her own. Hopefully it won't take pregnancy to wake her up. You can't tell people things. People do what they want.
2007-03-03 21:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to cut him out of her life, at least for now. If you keep feeding the strays, they keep coming back for more food.
2007-03-03 22:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was horny and she found a way to relieve it, what's the problem???
2007-03-03 22:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋