This guy I just met wants to know if I will sleep with him on the first date. I'm thinking...NO! HELL NO! What would you do? Any answers?
2007-03-03 13:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Monomentary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think "hooking up" on the first date means that a person is going to give you a second date?
2007-03-03 13:57:57 · update #1
all this guy wants to do is see if you will, which means all he wants is to have sex with you. Tell him exactly what you just said, and tell him he is stupid for asking that question... Thats a perfect example on men will be men, and all men want is to "**** ya then dump ya" (sorry bout the language) but its the truth...
2007-03-03 14:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by allie_cat_andry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. No way. Sounds like he's only looking for one thing. Give in and there may not be a second date. There shouldn't even be a first date with this guy.
2007-03-03 21:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of person asks a question like that? Say no... Say exactly what you just said. If that's all he's looking for, he might as well know now that it's not going to come right away. Tell him he's disgusting and stupid to ask that question. If you give in, there might not be a second date; he's only in it for one thing.
2007-03-03 22:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rei-chan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stick with your first reaction.. Hell no is right! Not only is it disgusting that he even asked you instead of letting things happen naturally, this is a sign that he has no respect for you.. And he definetely wont respect you after it hapens either. Don't do it. It's way too soon. Besides, too many people have diseases now anyway.
2007-03-03 21:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by kittykatmendez 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know this BEFORE the date?
Jerk!!!!
And I say this as somebody who has had sex on quite a few first dates ...
Exception: If one of the people is getting on a airplane to spend the weekend with another, sex is expected. Even then, of course, it's not an obligation.
2007-03-03 23:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha hell no. im surprised he has the balls to ask you that... if anyone asked me that i would know right away theyre only in it for the sex and probably wont call you ever again. Why put time and effort into a relationship if youre going to get the benefits for free? Dont be so easy.
2007-03-03 21:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't want to date a woman that would give it up the first date.That's trashy and it shows she doesn't have much respect for herself.Same with guys too.
2007-03-03 21:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. Anyone that does it on a first date is just screaming...I"M EASY.
Good for you
2007-03-03 21:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were a girl I definitely would not. But in my experience more girls do than don't, and I date nice girls.
2007-03-03 21:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess it depends on what type of woman u are. i have to admit i have done it before. it turned out good for the most part. but if ure not comfy dont do it. but if u feeling him like that...get yours!!!
2007-03-03 21:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by mckenzie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋