And I want him more than just a friend and I really don't know how he feels about me.Lately he has been calling me more and doing things for me but I am scared to tell him my true feelings.We have known each other seems forever help!
2007-03-03 13:49:12 · 28 answers · asked by chattycathy24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him so much ask him. A guy and a girl who are friends for so long can go out with each other. Most likely the relationship will be good.
2007-03-03 13:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by zombiepirate_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he feels the same way about you but in order to find out you will need to talk about it with him. The problem with that is that you might ruin the friendship or make it awkward because he will realize that you like him more than a friend. If he feels the same way then it will become something. I would say ask him out on a date and make sure he knows its an actual date. Go for it because you dont want to regret what you could have had later on when it is too late. Life is short
2007-03-03 21:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Greg daybreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The odds are that if he is calling you more and doing things for you, then he is probably interested in you romantically but he is just too shy to say so, so take the plunge. The best lovers are friends first so you could be missing out on a winning relationship if you don't speak up. Apparently, he isn't going to, but he is sending signals. I wish you long lasting happiness.
2007-03-03 21:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by storytllr1961 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like the gettin is good. If you like him; let him know what's up. Think about it, you already lightweight function like a couple, all there's left to do now is make it official and go steady. Trust me when I tell you a man is not going too turn down a relationship with a woman he has a deep connection with, and you two sound like you have something serious going so go for it.
2007-03-03 22:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him" we had wonderful times together as friends and we had some fun, but I would like to know if there's a chance for something else besides friends, and If you say no than can we still be friends I don't want to loose you as a friend" if he says yes then you already have a date, but if no then at least you gave it a shot and you didn't stay stuck just wondering what if.
2007-03-03 21:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the oppurtunity slip away. You'll never forgive yourself. This happened to me with a girl that I've known all my life. I liked her a lot, even enough to say that I loved her. Thanks to my cousin, she knew about this, but since I wasted my time, and never told her personally, I blew my chance. I lost her, and that pain affects me even to this day. (This happened in November) If you really feel that he is the one for you, then you just need to up and tell him. Don't let it slip away, just ask and hope for the best. The worst he can say is no. I wish you nothing but the best. Good Luck ^_^
2007-03-03 21:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you i have the same problem its so frustrating so hard especially since i feel so lonely at times it breaks my heart hes right there but we are not together in that sense just as friends.I hate it and i hope things work out soon.I wrote to him and told him just that we are friends i hope this doesnt change our friendship but i wanted to tell you.....he emailed back so it worked out well.Just that we have yet to meet up and go to next level from friendship forever to lovers.Try telling him and take it from there since until you tell him he wont know and you wont wonder all your life.If you want to talk email me
2007-03-03 21:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, at least he'll be flattered, he may even feel the same way. just a warning though, a breakup (especially when done callously) usually means that u have lost both a good friend and a boyfriend. so you have to weigh the options
2007-03-03 21:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by iwll m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really tough situation. But, if he has been showing extra attention, maybe he likes you, too. Maybe you should wait a while longer to tell him and he might tell you something or give you some clue that you should tell him.
2007-03-03 21:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by curiousin08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the way i see it you have two options - you could tell him how you feel and hope he feels the same - after all if your such great friends whats the worst that could happen or you could wait and not say anything and possible miss out on what could've been - good luck
2007-03-03 21:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋