What would you do if your ex-wife keeps making passes at you whenever your new girlfriend isnt looking.she dose that when im getting my kids for visitation.and if my new girlfriend isnt around my ex will try to grab me and i find that vary uncomforatable ..cuz i just dont want her anymore. What can i do to make her stop?
2007-03-03 13:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by EDDIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would explain to your ex wife that you are happy with your girlfriend and she needs to stop. I had the same problem with my sons dad but now we are good friend because i laid down some ground rules for us as friends. I told him straight out that i was with someone else and would like him to stop making passes at me. And so far it has worked maybe it will work for you to.
2007-03-03 13:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by babyangel81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you aren't gonna take it anymore and if she keeps it up, you are gonna go to the courts about getting full custody of the kids because your ex is a psychologically unstable lush.
2007-03-03 21:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely she is doing that because she is threatened by your new girlfriend. She is probably only doing it because all women hate the image of being replaced and thats what she has become. She is just trying to cause problems because of her own insecurities. My advice is to never be alone with her
2007-03-03 21:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Greg daybreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firmly tell her you are not interested and to stop. If she will not then you may need to have someone else pick up your children and drop them off. Have as little contact with her as possible except where it involves the children.
2007-03-03 21:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Starshine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you allow her to do that? Make her stop! Stand your ground for heaven's sake! That's sexual harrassment if you tell her to stop! Women hit men with sexual harrassment all of the time, use the law to your advandtage!
2007-03-03 21:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit her down, with no children or girlfriend around.
EXplain your divorced for a reason, but want to keep it amicable.
she might be feeling low and just going back to what she thought was always there. IT can be a hard thing for her to see you with someone new.
2007-03-03 21:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by Frenchie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to stop - and if she continues require that the child exchanges be done at a neutral place - or file a restraining order barring her from touching you
2007-03-03 21:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shopaholic Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd tell her that I have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend (that way I got all bases covered) and that she needs to buzz of like a little annoying bee that she is.
2007-03-03 21:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by 1st Date Swallower 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your girlfriend.
She is probably dying to go off on her
2007-03-03 21:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is just no longer attractive to you.. this should bring closure
2007-03-03 21:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by slingsandarrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋