Do girls just date me b/c I have money a car and I like to spend do on them or b/c I have a good personality and im nice girls be truth full
2007-03-03 13:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably a combination of all of the above. You have to understand that in the natural order of things women want all of that in a man and perspective mate. In the animal kingdom, the lioness gives herself to the strongest male lion. The one that fights for the right to mate with her and protects her and her cubs, until another stronger lion comes along. The female deer, has to fight her way through a circle of less deserving, weaker males to make it to the center where the alpha deer, the strongest with the largest antlers is. Then she mates with him. With women, what they look for is a man who has it together enough to be able to give her what she wants, and if he looks good, treats her good and is a good lover, then he's a prime specimen. No different than other mammals, it's only different standards but the same game. Men don't seem to understand that and consider a woman who wants that in a man to be a gold digger or a gamer. Why should women be less vigilant about choosing a mate than a jungle creature? Consider yourself worthy if you have it as together as you described yourself in your question, and be happy that you can attract the kind of woman that recognizes that. After all, fair exchange is no robbery.
2007-03-03 15:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is something that you can tell with each girl involved. Some girls definitely just want the nice ride and expensive time, but if you are a genuinely nice person and have a great personality, I am sure there are girls out there who appreciate that as well.
If you are unsure, start your dates out on a lower scale. Don't go all out financially too soon. Get to know the woman you are dating, and you will find out who is more genuine and who you really want to spend your time with.
2007-03-03 13:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the type of girls you date.
Lets see we have bitchy, money grabbers, the pretty girl with no values, the user and this is coming from a woman.
Most woman don't want the nice guy (because he is toooo nice) ie spend money on them etc
Test this: Go out on a date without your car or borrow someone who has a bomb, go to a restaurant that you don't have to pay a lot of money for, do the simple things in life (most of the time they don't cost too much.
Movies, picnics, walks just time with you then see what kind of girl attracts that. (weed out the money grabbers)
Good luck (just don't be a push over, us women like you men to be strong and real)
2007-03-03 13:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that there are a lot of girls out there that really only go for guys with money. If you are looking for a girl who is interested in your personality, when you meet them act as though you don't have much at all, if this turns them off then at least you know from the start. Don't worry, there are tons of girls out there like me that like a guy for the way they are rather than whats in their wallet.
2007-03-03 13:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends on the girl like if they make you pay for everything its for the money but if you do have a good personality they would liek you for that but it really depends on the girl mayb eyou should try to not flash your money and see if the girl can handle it but it does make since because if you have money then you have a job and can take care of them and yeah secure it helps alot just to try to be yourself and be nice an dnot always give them whatever they want not until you really know you like eachother
2007-03-03 13:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by youcantseeme2976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man having money and who is able to take care of finances allows a girl to feel safe and secure. It allows her to feel more feminine and get in connection with her feminine side. So that is a good thing about a man being responsible. Having a good personality is also another plus to make a girl feel safe and secure. Sounds like you have a good package to offer!
2007-03-03 13:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by leelee53 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on the girl. You can tell if a girl is with you for what you have or for your personality. Is she always trying to get you to buy her things or get money from you ? If she is then she doesn't like you for you. but if she's not and she wants to get to know the inside then she likes you for you.
2007-03-03 13:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by charletw2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We human are not any more generated in a production unit the position products are a similar in look and high quality. Human are have a tendency to diverse from one yet another in each element. otherwise what's the thrilling in existence. i ask your self why are you singling out females. Do you want quite a few females should be similar. What a humorous theory.
2016-11-27 19:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by nanhey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you spend all your money on your girlfriends? Is that the frist thing you say "Do you want my money?" Well if you have a girlfriend or if you get a girl friend soon dont show her that you have alot of money!
2007-03-03 13:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sure not for your good looks or your personality! You are ugly and boring. I would date you for like two weeks and not give you any. I would take my brand new Prada shoes and my LV handbag and tell you that I am married and can't see you anymore. And I'm a straight man! (I would give her the shoes and handbag... geez people!)
2007-03-03 13:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Alex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋