my boyfriend and i had sex with protection but i'm only fifteen and he is sixteen.........i missed my period it usually starts on the 18th of each month...could i be pregnant......if so how do i tell my mom and boyfriend?
2007-03-03 13:26:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i am a girl my avitar looks exactly like my boyfriend, i repeat i am a girl
2007-03-03 13:29:32 · update #1
Many caring moms will not kill you because you did it.... They will be willing to continue loving you and caring for you.... tell her after all she will find out sooner or later...... She knows It happens
2007-03-03 13:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Redeemed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic yet, you can go to the health clinic, it is private they are not allowed to tell even your parent anything. YOu can't rely on those store bought preg. tests. You will have to go to the doc eventuall anyway just go to the health dept.! They will explain everything and help you!!! If you are you have a decision to make very soon. There are all kinds of classes to teach you about motherhood, your boyfriend will have to step up and be responsible weather you get married or not. It will be an extremely hard life but lots of girls do it with the help of there family's. You also have the option to give it up for adoption. The there is the "A" word I don't even want to say it. But sometimes it is the only way. It is something you will have to search your soul over! Talk to others who have been through this situation before you jump into anything. Hopefully you won't be...... & if you are not you better take this to heart!! It is a warning. Just because you have messed up and had sex doesn't mean you can't stop and start over!!!! If you are pregnant, you will have to tell your family in a few months because you will start to show, do't try to hide it you could damage your insides as well as cause the baby sevier handcap or mental disability!!!! Be responsible it is not the end of the world, OK!!!
2007-03-03 13:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possible sure it is because you are having sex. No protection is 100 percent. So I would buy a pregnancy test at the store and take it in the morning before you have gone to the bathroom the urine is the strongest then better results. I would tell your mom if you are and I would stop having sex!!!! Why would you want to spend every month wondering if you are or aren't pregnant and how in the world will I tell my mom. Sounds to me that if you have to ask this question you are not old enough to be having sex anyway. Plus when you all break up and you most likely will at this age you will be devastated, heart broken, miserable, emotionally wrecked - because you had a bond with one another and now it is broken. Get to know one another, have fun, enjoy life with one another - date lots of guys, find out what you like. Just my opinion. I do hope you aren't pregnant and all works out for the best.
2007-03-03 13:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very possible! How do you tell your BF? You say "Hey Joe! Guess what? You are gonna be a daddy before you can even vote! So, I sure hope you didn't have any major life achievements to accomplish in the near future, that 20 mins. of fun says you'll be financially strapped for the next,...oh...18-20 yrs, and that is IF we dont have a preemie. As far as Mom & Dad, you say "Hey, you know how they teach us sex ed in school? Well, i'll be taking childbirth & parenting 101 in about 7-8 mos! Oh, and "Happy Grandparents Day in advance!!".
On a personal note, honey, if you didn't know the risks of getting pregnant in THIS day & age, you should've came out from under that rock a little sooner.
2007-03-03 13:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom! She can help you buy a pregnancy test and if you are pregnant help you with your options. If you are worried about your mom getting to really upset then tell another trusted adult (teacher, pastor, friends mom, school counselor) and they can help you tell her. Even if you are not pregnant your mom should know. You need to have a heart to heart with her. Some methods of protection work better then others. What kind of protection did you use. If you are on the pill did you miss any pills? If you don't know anyone that you feel comfortable telling try calling planned parenthood or a pregnancy center. They can help you too.
2007-03-03 13:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by just_someone_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important for you to verify that you are truly pregnant. It may be a false alarm. If this was your first time having sex it may take your period longer than normal to arrive. If it is not and you are under a lot of stress that may be another reason. The best thing for you to do is to take a pregnancy exam. You can do one of the over the counter tests, but it may be in your best interest to schedule an appointment with your doctor and at least that way you will be positively sure because it is a blood test. It may just be a scare, but if not good luck.
2007-03-03 13:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angelbabby_98 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age, sometimes periods can be irregular, so don't panic just yet~in the next week, if you still dont get it, you may want to go to your local Planned Parenthood and get a test (unless you have someone who can buy you a home pregnancy test) so you will know for sure. If you are scared to tell your mom, then you can have a counselor from Planned Parenthood with you when you tell her if you go see them and explain your situation. Regardless of how you tell them, they have to know if you are indeed pregnant. The fact that you are having sex at such a young age is worrysome enough, I HOPE YOU WERE PROTECTED~but also an incredibly young age to be worrying about pregnancy. If you aren't pregnant this time, LEARN YOUR LESSON and dont be in such a rush to grow up, unless you want to walk at your high school graduation with a stroller....
2007-03-03 13:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by cvjade 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the Virgin Mary can get pregnant anyone can. I suppose this great protection you are depending on is a condom? I have a daughter strained through one of those. If your period is that late, just ask your Mom to get you a pregnancy test and the rest will fall into place. Fall is probably not a good word to use as she will fall over when you ask her this but putting it off just makes it harder. You won't have to tell your boyfriend as those will be the last words he hears as your mother strangles him.
2007-03-03 14:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not an expert, but I wouldn't get too worried yet since you have only missed one period and you are only a few days late.
Buy an at home pregnancy test and then perhaps talk to your mom.
If you need anything, I am always just an email away.
2007-03-03 13:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a test! That will tell you what is going on. You could be so stressed out that you are suppressing your cycle. Don't worry until you know if you are pregnant or not.
Figure out one thing at a time
Good luck, Honey!
2007-03-11 14:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mj O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not. it could be that ur period is just going to come later. thats normal 4 ur age. but u realy need totake the test to make sure because the condom might have broke.
p.s. i would recommend that u dont have sex until ur at least mature enough to talk it over with ur mom at least or until ur 17+.
2007-03-03 13:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋