I've gone out acouple times with this guy, and we seemed to click. It's been almost a week since our third date. he hasn't called, but I've seen him twice (and he flirted) and he left a message on my wall on facebook. my roommate is a very close friend of his and she told me that he seems itnerested in me, and that she's never seen him persue a girl, usually he dates very aggresive girls. i'm usually forward, but I like to be chased just like most girls do, and I feel like he's relying on me to make the moves. I'm just not sure if I should give him a call, or wait it out. becuase I feel there is something between us, I don't want to wait too long and him think I'm not interested. It's just I'm not use to NOT being pursued that I don't know how to handle it the other way.
2007-03-03 13:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by naturegg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him go for him, he's shy thats why he doesnt pursue girls so you'll have to do it for him
2007-03-03 13:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIM! If you're really interested in him why not try something different and call him. See what happens. Use it as an experience to learn from. Everyone is afraid of doing things differently and stepping outside of their comfort zone, but why not just do it anyway. What are you waiting for?
2007-03-03 21:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by leelee53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just wait it out. it's true that it's more fun to be the one being pursued. just as I am right now, it's better for the guy to come to you and try to chase you. otherwise, he'll probably play you or start games and think he has control. big no no
2007-03-03 21:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shold call him, talk decently, complement him and then drop the BOOM!! You know like trace him! " How comes you didn't call me? Huh?! You think I'm goin' to call you? You think so?!" I'M KIDDING!!! Don't drop the boom! Just catch up, maybe he'll tell you something!
I'll be extremely glad if this answer helps you. :)
2007-03-03 21:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sihle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act like you need to be pursued. If you really like him talk to him about it before it is to late.
2007-03-03 21:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is not used to your type so his taking a break to think it over
2007-03-03 21:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your intrusted then call him if not tell him buh bye
2007-03-03 21:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋